What do value about yourself?

Canada
October 15, 2007 1:02am CST
OK..I bet when you read this you had to pause..because I did when I decided to post it as a discussion. We have had chats about who we love and why..and what matters..wealth and abundance..our support systems and cheerleaders...but never about YOU...and what you value about who you are. I can already feel some people squirming and wondering if they say things that it might sound conceited or egotistical to say..."I am a great person, or a wonderful mom, father, daughter, son, sister, brother, friend...or whatever." However, I like the statement old time baseball player said..."It isn't bragging when you do it!" So how about sharing what you value about yourself with me and others. When people are able to state what they value, are proud of, feel confident about, or really feel a sense of satisfaction does not mean equate to an over-inflated ego. When I am asking what you value about YOU...if you say it it does not indicate that you think you are better than anyone else..just that you know who you are and can 'own' it. Being able to love and appreciate ourselves is at the very foundation of having a healthy self-esteem and intrinsic worth. So is anyone out there willing to take the plunge and share some of the wonderful things that make you...uniquely you? I'll give you a few ideas for starters...and I sincerely hope you will be willing to participate and let members here know what I bet many of your family, co-workers friends and loved ones already do...that you have much value to them...and it ain't bragging when you do it! Are you honest, caring, intelligent, funny, good-hearted, willing to put yourself out for others...give in large and small ways..do volunteer work...help family members in unconditionally loving ways, care about nature..wildlife...are they things you value about yourself? Then please say so...I'd love to hear it. This is an important process because I continually notice many people have a really hard time in accepting compliments and positive feedback. So to start things off...I'll share a couple of things I value about myself...an ability to communicate ideas that enhance other people's lives...that I do my best to walk my talk and live an accountable, ethical life. Being an animal lover and caring about nature, wildlife and the environment..so there you do...no so hard once you get started. So please, take a breath...and tell me from your heart...what do YOU value about yourself? Warmest regards to all. I have missed chatting and posting discussions...but I've been busy with other commitments...but I am back and look forward to your views on this one.. Raia
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
15 Oct 07
I survive, grow stronger, and use that strength to protect and help myself and others. I know what I believe, I act on those beliefs, I consider the consequences of my actions and make choices very carefully. I am very loyal, to my Gods and to my loved ones. I am kind, to anyone, whenever it is possible for me to be. It is not a kindness I was born with, nor a kindness I was taught. I am not predestined to it. I have created it through my own hard work and my own determinedness to not become what I was "brought up" to be.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
15 Oct 07
I'm glad you like my new avatar! I was a little worried about people not recognizing me, since I've had the previous avatar for ten months already! But I really like the character in my avatar now (Iruka-sensei from Naruto), and I like the animation. He's so cute and thoughtful! Actually, I'm really serious about the characters I choose for my avatars, and I chose this one because of his kindness mainly, and his willingness to both stand up for what he believes and admit when he is wrong. I'm glad you understood what I meant with my response. I do believe that I have worked very hard to shape my own life, and make it into something much more positive than its beginning. I know way too many people who use the pain from their pasts as an excuse to create pain for others, and I am happy that I have not become one of them. Thanks for your kind words! *blushes* I do hope I can be as good a role model to my son as you say!!
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• Canada
16 Oct 07
I added more on your Avatar change on the discussion you posted. Like you I chose my Avatar with a lot of thought and the significance of owls as a power animal. Sometimes a change is good and you chose this for all the right reasons from the sound of it in your energetic alignment with what he represents. You do have much to feel good about and value within yourself with the path you have taken rather than allowing your abuses to be re-enacted towards other. Also I respect the way you have a strong voice about what you believe and that your sense of self is stronger than the rejection of your ideas by others. Once we have that concept mastered life usually becomes easier to manage because we are living from our authentic core rather than trying to live up to the expectations of others. That is why I honestly believe your son will benefit as much from WHO you are as WHAT you say. It comes through in many of your discussions how much you love him and want the best life possible. Sounds like a great combination to me! Hugs and warm regards, Raia
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Hi Lecanis...I like your new Avatar..I almost didn't know who you were until I saw your name. Now I will be looking for you with this one...I love the thoughtful hand on the chin....hmmmm...hmmmmmm..cute! Your addition to the discussion are as always of value to me. From what I have come to understand about who you are, your upbringing and belief systems I do commend you greatly on your ability to transform your pain into a sensitivity towards others through your self-teaching approach. It says a lot about your character that you have not continued 'doing what you know' (or were brought up to be.) Many use that as an excuse not to change and to lash out. You are definitely doing your best to grow your soul rather than resting on any predestined ideas from the past. Yes, we can choose something different at any moment...and the fact that you do and are is a great role model for you son. He is a lucky boy to have a Mom like you. So continue to take care of yourself and your family as you always do. Wishing you many bright blessings... Raia
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
15 Oct 07
First of all I should congratulate you for choosing such a relevant topic, a topic that will interest a nuimber of people and you do have a very good presentation. As someone pointed out, ' 'are we not to be humble '? that was a valid point and you have made us feel free in discussing our own positive qualities without a fear of bragging or unwarranted conceit or a self doubt"" OH!PROBABLY I SOUND TOO MUCH IN LOVE WITH MYSELF''. Well, I personally feel that I like my interactive nature, determination to succeed and resourcefulness and I consider these as my best qualities.Another important quality is my feeling of general contentment that I value a lot and take pains to preserve. My husband loves my not making too many demands on him and the way I supported him throughout, while my son loves my youthful spirit and light-heartedness, and uncomplicated lack of expectations from life and happiness with simple things in life[like the sight of parrots ]-So I too like these qualities of mine and pray to God that I continue the same way till the end and He gives me His grace to keep me like this.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Hello Kalaav56...and what a pleasure it is to welcome a relatively new member such as yourself here. You have a lovely way of expressing yourself and look forward to chatting more and I do hope you will continue to drop by Perspectives and add more of your valuable insights to our sharing circle. I also appreciate that you like the topic. I have a few personal reasons for posting it. In August my girl friend and her husband took their own lives. I cannot help but wonder if they had been encouraged to really look at their value to all who loved them they may not have felt the need to leave the way they did. So yes, I think we all need to pause periodically and be a cheerleader to ourselves without feeling it is conceited. Humility is fine and has its place so we don't become 'big headed.' However, many take it too far the other way and never really value all the wonderful ways they enhance other people's lives just for being who they are. Your willingness to share the positive exchanges you are aware of between your hubby and son. The way you celebrate life with an attitude of gratitude for the simple abundance of enjoying the sight of parrots...there is great value in that. So you thanked me for posting this relevant topic and I thank you for adding such an authentic response. Warmest regards.. Raia
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
16 Oct 07
I am sorry to hear about your friend and her husband-you must have had a tough time then. May their souls rest in peace! I responded to another discussion of yours because I liked the topic-Hope you got the intimation from mylot.com.Keep posing interesting topics for discussion. It is good to share our ideas and I like this feature in this forum.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
16 Oct 07
Actually, I seem to have already been in your circle because I have responded to your announcement of your friends'demise two months ago. A vague feeling made me go back to that discussion and I saw that I had written that small note of condolence to you EARLIER TOO. Incidentally ,I responded to your discussion on personal empowerment today.I am planning to respond to your discussion on friends now.;;''best friend''.I was in the process of typing it out when I LOST THE CONNECTION.
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@gwendovere (1279)
• United States
15 Oct 07
My determination. If I set my heart on getting something done, I do whatever it takes to accomplish that goal.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Hi... Your concise...positive assessment of what you see in yourself is exactly the kind of thing I was hoping to hear. When we know who we are and live life from that center of self-acceptance it comes through in our relationships with others because we are walking the talk. Thanks for adding your comments here.. Raia
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@azimsay (543)
• India
15 Oct 07
In my family my value is very imp place because I only the one person which is working and earning money for my family.I am honest my with family.I am worring about my family.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Hi and thanks for dropping by to chat and add your experiences and personal perceptions to the topic. From the sound of the devotion to you family they have much to value and appreciate in your efforts to create a better quality of life for you...and them. Those are admirable qualities and it is good to hear you can see what a good job you are doing. Best regards, Raia
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@surajpkn (582)
• India
15 Oct 07
Well, i know i am a good man and i value that first of all. I also value my generosity and my tendency to help others. I am not selfish and i am proud to say that.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Hi...and just to let you know I loved the way you shared the simple, straight forward truth of the value you place in yourself...and feel proud to say it. Good for you...it sounds as though you live a life of integrity and should be proud of it. Thanks for your input... Raia
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@kellyalex (151)
• China
15 Oct 07
I remember a famous man said a word,the value of living is decreasing the costing of others' lives.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Hmmmmm...is that quotation a reflection of what you do and value in yourself? Although I do appreciate your taking the time to stop by I am somewhat perplexed about the context of the quotation and how it translates to what you value about yourself in the context of the topic. If you'd care to elaborate I am sure it would be most interesting...if not I will leave the question mark on the page and move on... So long for now... Raia
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• Canada
16 Oct 07
Hi again.. Thanks a heap for coming back and adding some clarity to your first post. Having you add how your approach to others fits in relation to the quotation helped me connect the dots...and I appreciate that! My brain likes to be able to wrap itself around who a person is in relation to what they are saying..I got it now! Cheers, Raia
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• China
16 Oct 07
In my mind giving is much happier than receiving.I am pleasurable to help other who is in trouble.If what I have done is good to others,my value comes true.This is my attitude to life.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
15 Oct 07
You have introduced lovely discussion topic and it is difficult to make self assessment, because all these years I was assessed by others, like Parents, School Teachers, Examination Boards, Interviews with Companies, People who give loans, people who want to sell their house etc. Now that you have asked, let me thoroughly introspect with my soul with stirring questions. I have made a fair assessment, it could be a little far from reality. Possiblilities are there, it could be little exaggerated. Also it is possible I might not have opened up fully. I am married, having a child, has profound faith in religion, institution of marriage and the unit called family. I like in myself having the qualities of honesty, sincerity of purpose, total dedication to whatever is entrusted to me and above all I would like to curt, humane and kind towars all living beings. I have great regards for others' appreciation and I acknowledge the help rendered by others. I am always trying to be helpful to others and all along my life, I have been a volunteer, rendering social service in whatever capacity I have.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Greetings again my friend...I hope you know your regular presence at my site and the invaluable additions you make add a lot here and I truly do appreciate it. Your observations about how we are constantly being assessed by others is very true and we are not encouraged to stop and consider what we truly value in ourselves. From the way you put down what you value about yourself and why it doesn't sound exaggerated or far from reality. Granted, I say that without having met you in person...but from the time we have been chatting you do come across as a person of integrity and would not inflate your self worth because it does not seem to fit with your moral code. So the fact that you re willing to help, volunteer, love and respect your marriage and family...you have much to value in yourself and I appreciate that you can 'own' those things. Sometimes people cannot do that and from my point of view it is not healthy. In my way of thinking within our spiritual path it is up to each of us to get very still and figure out who we are. No one else defines our lives...that is our work to do. So once again it is a pleasure to share ideas with you...thanks for your authentic sharing of what you value...there is a lot there to value! Best regards, Raia
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
15 Oct 07
I value the fact I am honest, reliable, caring and loving. My support system, immediate family, can vouch for these qualities. My personality is interesting. Most people think I am terribly funny. Guess I have to agree with that trait! I can be very amusing at a party and enjoy social events. Time to stop as I can't seem to quit patting myself on the back. Conceited I am not but the above statements sure sounds like the discussion is headed that direction.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
17 Oct 07
Thank you so much. I'd much rather reach the heavens from happy wrinkles instead of frown marks! After all, I would be without makeup either way.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Hi...ahhhh...I was just starting to get into hearing about the wonderful attritubes you have and then modesty kicked in and you cut it off. Too bad...the whole point of this exercise is to create a higher comfort level with owning the wonderfully unique beings we all are. Not better than each other...but just admitting that there is no best in the world of individuals. Too bad society doesn't teach that as a basic rule. No best in the world of individuals...so what you shared are things that make you....you...and as the quote from Dizzy Dean says..."It isn't bragging when you are it...or do it." So no, you are not conceited...but sure sound like a great addition to any gathering. Laughter is a great gift...so keep on tickling their funny bones...you are adding to their health and well-being! Cheers, Raia
• Canada
18 Oct 07
Ahhhh yes, happy wrinkles rather than sad frown lines...yes by all means lets live with upturned expressions rather than upside down smiles for sure! Thanks for coming back and adding that great perspective! Warm, happy smiles... Raia
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
15 Oct 07
oh no ya just knew it would be me squirming here lol am thinking!!!!!!!!!!! well warmhearted, lov to make friends ,nature, growing things,keeping me family together with all the traveling WE did and we are close nit. and keeping on till I found my othr 3 boys after 27 years
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
16 Oct 07
awww now I am blushing. thanks
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Yep...I knew there would be some who would have a really big 'cringe factor' with this one! However in my view it is healthy for us to stop and toot our own horns once in awhile...it is all to easy to forget the positive impact we have on the lives of others unless we do. I think the things you have listed are of real value for sure...and I can add your strength, your gratitude for what you are given, a willingness to give back, a core strength that has really proven itself again as you work towards regaining your health. So there my friend...I can feel you cringing as you read this...but it is the truth from my heartfelt value of you as the friend you are to me. Love, hugs, blessings Raia
@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
17 Oct 07
When the waves have their own reflections To raise a tied within At that time I really value about myself Regarding grasping that! When the wings of birds drive me far away in the sky To become aware about vertical vision I value about myself To achieve such a graceful learning! When the earth suddenly invokes inside the tree To show me the simplicity of the manifestation I value about myself to absorb the phenomena within without any holding to make the things free for ever! When the love leads me to spread it unconditionally And donate me egoless self identity I value about myself to bathe In the free space of existence! When the darkness is drawing negativity everywhere At that moment a candle lightened up by the soul I value about myself for the blossoming like a lotus Through the mud of rigidity!
• Canada
23 Oct 07
Healwell...how did I miss this wonderful, touching addition to this topic. I am sorry not to have responded sooner...but I have been nursing a knee injury and meeting work commitments. I love your poetic expressions of what you value in yourself. I sincerely hope you will compile a book of your poems...you material has a Kahil Gabril feel to it and I would love to read more of your work. Thank you for being the friend you are...and for adding your wisdom and spirituality to ever topic. Warmest regards as always, Raia
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@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
15 Oct 07
First, I really love the way you write. Not only do you write with clarity and a strong voice - but you draw the reader in and make them feel welcome. Okay, I value the fact that I want to be more then I am and take steps to get there. I want to be more compassionate, a good listener - a light bringer. I want to master a profession which will allow me to bring others balance in their lives. Well knowing that to master something means you will be ever learning, evolving and growing in it. I love this about myself! I value it. I value the fact that I have three rules in my life and will ask the same of my son. Respect yourself - don't put yourself down, or do anything which will cause harm to your body, mind or spirit - purposefully. Know that you are of value to the world. Respect others - don't put anyone else down, or do anything that will cause harm to anothers body, mind or spirit. Know that everyone has something of value to impart to the world. Respect your environment. This means immediate and the greater environment of the world and spirit. Don't put it down or do anything that will cause harm to its body, mind or spirit. And yes the world has a spirit. Know that both the physical and spiritual world has something of value to impart. I really value that part of me that believes in this three part law. I'm not perfect in it but I strive to be - another thing I value about myself, I accept who am now, still going forward on a path to who I want to be.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
My goodness...what a pleasure it is to chat with you...we need to do it more often. Your very positive feedback about my writer's voice is very meaningful to me and I thank you for being so forthcoming...you made my day! We have a mutual admiration society going on here because your talents as a writer and communicator come through loud and clear in your topics and discussion too! That will continue to be of real value to assist others in brings balance in their lives...because as you master more you will obviously be able to share more. Your son is indeed very fortunate to have a Mom with such wisdom, overview and spiritual understanding. From the sound of it you are able to walk your talk and lead be example. For young people with their sponge like consciousness you will 'show' him as well as telling him...and that is an amazing gift! I really appreciate your triangulated rules you frame your life within. They are very aligned to my spiritual and metaphysical views of the the world and my place within it. What I value in all that you have offered here is how articulate you are in your understanding of yourself in such an honest, authentic way. I believe a large part of our spiritual path is to find soul path passion...and live it. From the sound of it you are already doing that and will continue to fly very high with your own wings. This is a truly delightful post...and a pleasure to read..thank you. It is always great to hear from those with a strong sense of self. All too often we hear the 'aw shucks...not me..yah think...really...no..' dialog when people are given positive feedback for who they are. When I hear that I also hear an intrinsic lack of self worth. As I said when I posted the discussion.."It isn't bragging when you do it!" Warmest regards to you and yours.. Raia
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@kodie420 (872)
• Canada
15 Oct 07
Well the one thing I value about myself is that I'm a totally reliable person and anyone can count on me at anytime. When theres something to do like job or something I don't quit until its finished.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
How good to hear. I love it when people can give an honest assessment of who they are to others. Reliability is a very admirable trait...and one I am sure your friends, family and co-workers respect a lot. Thanks for getting the topic off to a great start! Raia
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• United States
27 Oct 07
Hi Raia, I value my honesty and my ability to be committed in love, life and friendships. I value my sense of humor and my desire to help people, even if its someone I dont know. I value my ability to socialise and interact with people, Im friendly and outgoing. I also value that Im opinionated, and Im not afraid to speak up or protect myself or the people that are close to me. Well there you! If you can consider those values, thats what I like about being me! :) Bay xx
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• Canada
27 Oct 07
Well I would say there is a lot to value in you. They are traits I also respect in you...and others...especially the honesty and ability to stand up for what you believe is right...or wrong. I can sense that you are friendly, outgoing and care about people. I also appreciate your willingness to express appreciation and your observations about others here. I saw that when you first started responding...and that attitude of gratitude and 'paying it forward' when someone deserves kudos are other valuable things that make you...uniquely YOU! Good input as always...thanks again. Raia
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
20 Oct 07
Well, I'd say that I'm reliable, loyal, determined. When I set goals, I don't give up easily. I'm also pretty open-minded (but not too open-minded as to not having my own values and standards) and I love planning. I can say that I'm a pretty good organizer and planner. Other than that, I'm optimistic and I have a pretty good sense of humour. :-D
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• Canada
26 Oct 07
My comments and feedback to you are coming from my heart and what I sense about what you share here. So I hope you can take them inside because they are genuine. I really respect how you were so willing to take a chance on love and risk the security and familiarity of your home and family to be with your Sweetie. It is also good to hear that it is working out so well. I loved your additional thoughts and it is a reminder for me to do the same. And yes, let us hope that we can remember to live that way for the rest of our lives...it will certainly make it richer, fuller and very satisfying. Good addition...and I have given you my best response on this because I truly value your ideas and active participation on this discussion and many others. You are a valued contributor here...and a good friend too! Hugs, love, light... Raia
• Canada
23 Oct 07
Hello again It is wonderful to hear your honest assessment of yourself. After reading how you moved beyond your comfort zone I would add courageous, committed, willing to take risks...and to love in the face of daunting odds. Hold you head high and shoulders back..you have a lot to feel proud of and good about! No wonder your hubby loves you and wanted you to share a life with him...from the sound of it you do it well! Best regards, Raia
• Finland
23 Oct 07
Hi, Raia! THANKS again to add some more descriptions of me and for your kind words he he he...To be honest, before moving to Finland, I had always "played it safe". I liked living that way. However, when I had the choice to marry my hubby and moved to Finland, I finally said to myself, "Hey, no risk, no gain, remember? Besides, the odds of your being able to make it work are bigger 'coz he's your best friend." Yes, thank you, I feel good about everything as it's only a matter of "perspective" (your nickname) HE HE HE HE...I made some resolutions when I first moved here: 1. Be kind to yourself, esp. since you've just moved to a new place. Thus it's like starting life again as a small kid. 2. Get in touch with your inner child and start learning to laugh at yourself. 3. Soak up in God's love every single day. 4. Count your blessings, even the smallest are sometimes the more important ones than the big ones. 5. Catch yourself before you utter words of complaints. I HOPE I'll remember all those for the rest of my life he he he he...I think I've given more life lessons ever since I moved here. Probably 'coz it's beyond my comfort zone here...but I'm glad because I can feel myself transformed. ;-D It's always nice to talk to someone who's been there, done that like yourself, Raia. ;-D Looking forward to talking to you again later! Cheers, AMEL
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• United States
15 Oct 07
I have always been a caring person. Making people happy makes me happy. When I am able bring some sunshine to a dreary day, I have done good. This is not always done with words, but with gifts too. I enjoy giving gifts to people. They aren't always large gifts. The gifts are usually small and cost little to nothing. Sometimes the best gifts cost pennies or not a single penny. The joy they bring is priceless.
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• Canada
15 Oct 07
Ahhhh why doesn't hearing this surprise me? You seem to be a person that lives with the philosophy my Mom raised me with. The quality of the gift is in how much love, care and thought went into it rather than the material cost. I know for experience how many special gifts of genuine acknowledgment you have offered to me...and they truly have added warm fuzzies to my life because I know you say what you mean...and mean what you say. So once again thanks for adding your wonderfully wise woman ways to this topic. Raia
@brendakaya (2332)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I think the thing that I most value about myself, is my love for animals. I would do anything for my pets, and any homeless pets, also. I have a heart bigger than than the rest of me, when it comes to a cat, dog, or any other animal in danger. Unfortunately, it may be alittle too big, because I tend to take in so many, that I may need 2 jobs, before too long.
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• Canada
17 Oct 07
Barn Cats Under Infra Red Lamp - This photo was taken when we went to pick out what we thought would be one cat to be a companion for our female. When we saw how many needed a good home we came home with 4 cats to make a total of five. That was a year ago and they are all great pets and we do not regret having them along with our 2 seventy pound dogs...because you guessed it...my hubby and me are animal lovers!
Ahhh how wonderful to hear that. There are so many out there who place so little value on the health and well being of animals...both domesticated and those in the wilds. It is always heartwarming to me to know people like you are out there. We are of a similar mind and currently have two 70 pounds dogs and 5 cats that we rescued from the harsh life of many barn cats. So I applaud what you value most about yourself...and I do too! Thanks for being yet another person who genuinely walks their talk and looks out for those who do not have a voice of their own! I have included a photo of the two litters that we got 4 of our 5 cats from. At least the farmer had provided an infra red lamp for the parents and the kittens to stay warm. Your comments and rating would be welcome! Thankfully, all 13 were adopted and he decided to have one of the mothers fixed. Their view is that cats are 'service' animals to keep rodents out of the barns. They allow them to breed unchecked because many have a short lifespan and are attached from the many birds of prey in our agricultural community. At least we are doing our part to assist where we can! Keep up the good work...and thanks for your input. I value that in you so much too! Raia
@naturalst (143)
16 Oct 07
i value my family. i value my children and my hubby. i value the things that we do. it's important that we have good communication and good relationship with each other. it's important that i could enjoy my day with them. we have activities together like going to parks and going to malls. we eat outside every weekends. we make it a point that we get to eat outside and have some time together. every weekends the kids can choose where to go and what to buy for themselves. we buy them clothes or toys or anything that is not too expensive and things we can allow them to have.
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• Canada
17 Oct 07
Hi again. It is a pleasure to have you as a friend and be chatting on a regular basis. From the sound of it there are many things that you value in the life you have with your whole family. That truly is a gift of immense value...more than anything money can buy. Feeling happy, content and appreciative of the shared bonds is something delightful to read about. The kids sound very fortunate indeed to have such a wonderful circle of care givers. May you and your family continue to have many bright, beautiful blessings. Warm regards, Raia
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
16 Oct 07
What I value about myself is that I am open minded and question everything. I beleive anything is possible and I look at both sides before forming my opinion, and I have many! I also like that I am a go-getter and like doing lots of different things instead of sitting around doing nothing and being bored. I am never bored!
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• Canada
16 Oct 07
Hi and congratulations on reaching 100 and your first star. From the sound of it you have a number of things that you place value on within your sense of self...and I respect that. Being a go-getter is a great thing because it helps anyone fulfill their goal-setting and goal-getting plans. The fact that you are never bored shows you enjoy every moment in life...good for you that is a real bonus!
@nadezna (203)
• Philippines
15 Oct 07
i always do value my family a lot it was the reason why i live longer i want them to be with me every single day..i dont know what my life is without them hanging around with me..
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