will you lend money to your friend again,when he is still owing you money?

@eve0922 (364)
China
October 15, 2007 6:52am CST
That's a difficult question,i think,and my answer maybe "no". so what about you?
5 responses
• Philippines
15 Oct 07
Helping your friend in times of their need is very nice. In the first place, if this happens to me, then I might first ask her where she is going to use the money. Considering that she still has some debts with me, I will surely not to think about it as long as she is borrowing money for a reason. We should always ask the reason why she needs to borrow some money again. If it is very important like emergency purposes, then I would sure lend her some money as long as I have and I can produce it. What is the purpose of friendship if you are not going to help each other in times of trouble and need, right? However, if you think that the money that she tries to borrow will only be used in a useless matter, then I guess, I might refuse to lend her some money. In this situation, it always depends upon the scenario and the reason behind of borrowing money. That's it. Have a nice day and God speed!
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@eve0922 (364)
• China
15 Oct 07
Thank you ,braveheart,you are so kind,but i still don't wanna take a risk.
• Singapore
16 Oct 07
I would most likely not to lend my friend money again. However if it is really urgent and my friend has been returning the money to me before, I would lend again.
@eve0922 (364)
• China
16 Oct 07
thanks for sharing
@niranjans87 (1079)
• India
15 Oct 07
well it really depends on how much money he owes me, why he needs the money and if i have money in the first place to lend...i mean they are still your friends and irrespective of how much they owe you they ll still remain so....i mean if the money is being used for wrong purposes and being wasted then it doesnt matter if he owes me money....its a plain no....i am not gonna let my friends take the wrong path....but if he is really in need then i dont care....let him not return it at all....i ll give to him simply cos he is my friend....
@eve0922 (364)
• China
15 Oct 07
I understand you ,and thanks for your reply,so i said that's a difficult choice
@surajpkn (584)
• India
15 Oct 07
Well, it depends upon the kind of person he is. Yes, he is my friend and the heart to say a no will not come very easily but i if he is a guy whom i can rely upon, and if he really needs money for a genuine purpose and if he assures me and convinces me that he'll give the money back, then i would not hesitate to give him the money he needs.
@eve0922 (364)
• China
15 Oct 07
If he is your best friend?and that's a big sum?
@SHAMRACK (8384)
• India
16 Oct 07
Hi, Offcourse I do lent money to my friends whom I trust also according to the seriousness of matter. But I do ignore for unjustifiable reasons I find so. Still for good friend I am happy to lent him even if he is not able to give back.