What is your part in making your marriage successful?

By Bala
@balasri (26553)
India
October 16, 2007 1:11am CST
Between you, husband and wife whose contribution is more you think?
5 responses
@mimpi1911 (25479)
• India
16 Oct 07
I think, both the husband and wife have equal role to play. here, I am not talking about sharing responsibilities and doing duties that a marriage involves. It's more about the intrinsic roles of the two. In that perspective, TRUST, RESPECT and SPACE are the most important things that get it going. Love is in trust, respect and understanding. Love is in allowing space to each other. Love is in believing each other. So, Bala, when we are talking about contribution, it's mutual, isn't it?
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@balasri (26553)
• India
16 Oct 07
Absolutely 100% mutual mimpi.At times and in many cases the percentage tilts.That is why I asked what is your part friend.
@mimpi1911 (25479)
• India
16 Oct 07
Yes, it does tilt in some circumstances. But, at the end we have to do the balancing act.
@balasri (26553)
• India
16 Oct 07
That makes sense.Well since everyone tends to response generally in spite of me asking 'your part' I think I have become a wee bit too personal or what.What do you think as a friend mimpi?
• Malaysia
16 Oct 07
I think both part has to take part. It is not succeed without team work. Both have to cooperate together. Always discuss on any matter, listen to each other, be tolerance and understanding, will be the key to the success of the relationship.
@balasri (26553)
• India
16 Oct 07
Yes friend I agree.But what could be in your life may I know.
• Malaysia
16 Oct 07
My friend, I am very apology. I can't share it with you. Because I am still single. regards.
@balasri (26553)
• India
16 Oct 07
I wish from the bottom of my heart a very very successful marriage to you.
@gharinder (2044)
• India
18 Oct 07
i think marriage is a mutual relationship, no one is more or less important, we both are equally responsible for the success of marriage, and i personally think that any such thoughts of supremacy in marriage can ruin the relationship, as in marriage, "we" is more important than "I", dont you think so.
@balasri (26553)
• India
18 Oct 07
I very much think so.I just wanted to know the parts you play in your equal part.Thanks
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I think my husband is a very sweet guy and he is always trying his best to make me happy. According to him, he cannot imagined his life without me.
@balasri (26553)
• India
17 Oct 07
I am happy the way you feel.All the best.
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 07
My part is to give more and my hubby is to care more. I could not differentiates the contribution breakdown into percentage or level of our sacrifices, as it will build up a moral gap between me and my hubby. The most is both of us, produce a quality contribution to each other towards our marriage successfulness in our relationship.