replying your friend topic discussion

Indonesia
October 18, 2007 1:50am CST
are you always replying your friend discussion so it seem that you forcing your self to response their topic although you dont have any idea to respone? or you just replying topic which seem interesting you and your mood, it means not always friend discussion you gonna reply? for me, i just try to enjoy mylot and keep in touch with all of my friend here. coz of my working offline, i cant reply every single discussion that they made. i just put my comment in interesting one and stay in touch with my previous response. thats my way to keep in touch with them and enjoying my lot. what about you?
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33 responses
@dpk262006 (56217)
• Delhi, India
18 Oct 07
I try to reply to my friends' discussions first, if I am capable of contributing some ideas of mine in the discussion. If I feel I have no knowledge of the topic raised in the discussion, then I do not reply. Friends are important for me.
• Indonesia
18 Oct 07
absolutely agree. friends also important to me :)
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• Indonesia
18 Oct 07
absolutely right. friends are important for me too :)
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@dpk262006 (56217)
• Delhi, India
18 Oct 07
We are friends, so you also become very important to me...and likewise...if I find your discussions are interesting and I can contribute something...I will surely reply.
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@Pompon (1758)
• Poland
18 Oct 07
I'm only replying in topics when I feel have something to say, I don't force myself. But there are many discussions every day on mylot so I always check the ones my friends made first. My time is limited and this way I can keep in touch with them as well:)
• United States
18 Oct 07
I reply to the posts that catch my eye. If I have a friend on here post something that catches my eye then I will post a reply to them as well
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@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
I only choose topics or discussions from friends that I feel I have good things to say, I ignore those of which I have no complete knowledge of what they're talking about. I still keep a few number on my friend's list, because I aovid having more of those that posts discussions that has less interest for me.
@aseretdd (13736)
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
Most of the topics i reply to are from friends... but i don't reply to every topic they post because some of them can start as many as 10 topics a day... i only choose topics that i really have something to say... I also allot time to look for discussions started by newbies or those not in my friend list...
@alamode (3073)
• United States
18 Oct 07
Although my friends have some very interesting and different posts, there are many topics I really feel I can't add to. I don't feel bad about letting them go... I want to put my comments where they may do some good. I don't expect my friends to answer all of my posts, either. The idea is to keep things interesting and exciting around here, not trudge through out of duty.
@alamode (3073)
• United States
18 Oct 07
I hit that wrong button again... SO, in closing... after I answer a post from a friend, I go to the bottom of the page and answer one of the posts there. I have made some great new friends that way, and it does open up new areas to discuss.
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@ElicBxn (60884)
• United States
18 Oct 07
I am that way plum. I have some friends who's topics are 90% subjects I want to stay away from. I read them, but don't respond. There are people out there WAITING to jump on a person they disagree with. I stay away from certain topics that are politicial or religious by nature. I will respond to some of them, but really depends on the discussion. And I do stay in touch with my previous responses, tho a "I agree with you" or "that's cute" isn't going to promt a follow up response from me.
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@ailema4ever (2675)
• Finland
18 Oct 07
No, I usually browse in new discussions, discussions my friends started, and today's top discussions to find topics that I think I can reply well. Otherwise I wouldn't bother 'coz I'll just be wasting the person's time he he he he he... And I'm sure they understand, too, 'coz I also don't expect my friends to comment on every one of my posts. ;-D
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@subathra (3519)
• India
18 Oct 07
No..i give importance to friends discussions but never reply to something which i dont like and dont have anything to share as my view point..only if it interest me i reply back..similarly i never expect that all my discussions to be responded by friends in my list..everybody have their own choice.. like you said i enjoy mylotting , responding to discussions, commenting on responses and keep going good..
@izathewzia (5142)
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
I always check the "discussions my friends started". But I am not looking whose friend posted it but what among the discussions that is worth replying. Or I have an idea to share. Or simply elicit responses on my mind. Most of my replies are posted on my friends' discussions. it is my way of showing them that I value their friendship and I am trying my best to help them increases their ratings and earnings somehow.
• Philippines
25 Nov 07
Thanks for marking my reply as the best. Have a truly nice day!
• United States
18 Oct 07
hi plumwish, I like to check discussions started by my friends first, then I check today's top discussions, new discussions, today's hot topics, and new user discussions. I will only respond to discussions that I have knowledge of. I don't feel that I have to respond to all of my friends' posts. There are lots of discussions started everyday, it is very hard if not impossible to get to all of them, if your time is limited. So I do the best I can with what time I have. Periodically, I like to check up on discussions that I have started, and my unresolved discussions as well. This site is very addicting, and time consuming to an extent. But I love it. Happy posting..
• Indonesia
18 Oct 07
yes, mylot is addicting site :) most of time, i forgot how long i already spent in here
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@ssh123 (31103)
• India
18 Oct 07
Out of 100 posts I make *responses' I choose 50 from friends topic and 50 from general category. Though I have told each and every friend of mine that they should reciprocate by replying to m y posts, they seem to have gone deaf. Slowly I am trying to ingnore the friends, of those who have no courtesy and reciprocation.In fact I do not send reqeusts for friends, it is they who sent in the requests. If I send personal messages they do not reply. All they want is response to their topic. It is not worth calling such people as friends.
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@ellie26 (4128)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 07
I like to reply if I find it interesting and I have tons of ideas to discuss. It is not only mylot friends but also other discussions of interest.
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• Bulgaria
18 Oct 07
I can never force myself to do something like this. I just take a look at today's topics and if there's anything that seems interesting to me I'll reply. Then I check out the discussions my friends started and I find more interesting ones there. And if it wasn't enough to go through them I go to see today's hot topics.
• Singapore
18 Oct 07
I did reply my friends' discussion on my will, but not forced. how can you express yourself when you are forced? just try to show your true colours.
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@3lilangels (4639)
• United States
18 Oct 07
well i try to repond to all my friends discussions,i will give them my best answer that i can and hope it helps them some way.
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• United States
18 Oct 07
I generally respond to the discussions that I feel I can make a good contribution to. Some discussions are very comparable to others, and if I've already made a response on the topic, I pass it by. I don't want to be repeating the same ideas. I try to keep in touch with my friends here.
@shak143 (1280)
• India
18 Oct 07
I always tries to respond to my friends discussions.it dosen't mean that i will or i have to respond to it as it is started by friend.i respond to a discussion only when i like it or when i understand it and my mind gives me some idea about it.then only i respond otherwise no chance.
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@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
18 Oct 07
I try to answer eash responce with a respomce but when reading a post that I have no idea about I bypass it and find something I can respond too.
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@budsr03 (2355)
• Canada
18 Oct 07
Hi Plumwish! I respond to topics i know something about and try to give a proper response or opinion! Sometimes i just can't come up with a good enough response, but i won't give up easily! If i don't reply i do give positives to everything i read! Take care.