have you ever changed yourself to adapt the society?

China
October 18, 2007 7:18am CST
sometimes, if you want to live more comfortable in this world, you have to change yourself? as you know, people around you may talk about you, they may tell you that you cant action in that way, or you are wrong in something. if the people around need your change, or the enviroment need your change, will you chage? or you just action on your own way?
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@lucy67 (819)
• China
18 Oct 07
perhaps i will change to adapt the society. if many people around me think something in this way but i think in the other way i will give a second thought to it. in some cases, i will probably change a little to adapt most people.
@Vivianh (331)
• China
18 Oct 07
I think everyone have to chang himself to adapt the society more or less.So we all feel that it's more and more anxious in daily work days.Therefore,if the enviroment around me seems that there r something need to change in myself,I will think about it seriously and do it if I really have to.Just never forget my own way.
@wasons (303)
• China
18 Oct 07
hello qin! well,for the most conditions i would change my action to suit the people around me,but sometimes i have my own opinion,if it donesn't hurt any others i would do it in my way.after all every body has his own living style.
@Sharon38 (1916)
• Jamaica
18 Oct 07
I honestly believe in being me but when it comes to changing to suit society that is where I draw the line. Alright look at this way. Society says people like me are too fat and should lose weight in order to be fashionable. the thing is I am comfortable with being me. I was not made to be skinny and after all I have only covered the bones and am not overwieght. socitey says my hair is too kinky I must process it - me I feel comfortable with myhair and tells who I am - a natural woman all over. If you are talking about bad habits that needs to be changed now that is different. But I will never change my appearance or personality to please anyone. If I cant be myself around you what is the point of having a relationship? I do things in accorance with the Biblical principles I do so try to live by.