to be single or to find a boyfriend?

China
October 19, 2007 12:37am CST
The age is growing, but I still enjoy my single life since I can do whatever at my will. But sometimes, when I stay alone, I felt lonely and hope my future life parter will appear. It's true that boyfriend will care for you and comfort you when you are unhappy or frustrated, but quarrel is unavoidable. Now I am hoping but also afraid to find boyfriend? Do you have the same feeling like me? And how will you to deal with it? Pls give me some suggestion. Thanks
4 responses
• Philippines
19 Oct 07
in my own situation i do have a boyfriend right now..we were together more than a month right now..im very much happy when we were always together..it such a nice feeling that when u have problems he is always there for you.. dont lose hope for there is someone for you..but if youre running out of time..hurry up friend huh..its feels like u have ur companion, bestfriend, when u have a boyfriend..misunderstanding and quarrels cant be avoided but it is between the two of you on how u can handle the situation..uu
• China
22 Oct 07
thanks for your encouragement and give my best regards to you both. And how do you and your boyfriend to know each other, I mean how do you encounter your boyfriend in the first time? Does him are introduced by your parents or relatives? And how do you think of this way to find BF or GF?
• Philippines
26 Oct 07
yeeh..thanks.. we were in the same government institution and we were introduced by his boss..hmmmmm..at first we were shy in treating each other..but lately we found out that we liked each other..hehe sounds funny..
• China
26 Oct 07
admiring you...
@svelte (132)
• Philippines
26 Oct 07
I think you are still not ready to some risks. If you want to find love, you have to take a risk and set aside your fears of getting hurt due to fights, jealousy, selfishness, lies and a lot more. These fears that you have is just normal to you and to everyone else when it comes to love. It is just a matter of dealing with it and surpassing all of it. I believe in the saying that "It takes two to tango". So let this be a challenge for you to look forward to.. Good Luck!
• China
26 Oct 07
Thanks so much for your advice and encouragement. I will nerve myself to await the arrival of my future love.
@mlpig2 (62)
• China
26 Oct 07
honestly,i'm not approve to find parter by someone introuduced.i perfer to believe destiny make our life connected,so,i suggest you should be patient and wait for the Mr.right appear.anyway,it's just my personal opinion
• China
26 Oct 07
At first, I have the same idea as yours, but as the age growing, my social cicle is not wide, it's difficult to meet my future life parter by destiny. And my mom is also worry about this matter. As for me, I hope but also scared to find the future love. But thanks a lot for your comment. :)
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 07
Enjoy your life, if we are always thinking the worst part, it will never end. One day, you will find the lucky guy.