Good friends are hard to find............Are good friends hard to find?

Romania
October 19, 2007 9:15am CST
Are good friends hard to find? Sometimes old friends to ones you really trust disappoint you.Is that hard to find good friends?
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@hopejordan (3567)
• Australia
19 Oct 07
yes thats true it is hard to find good friends i think it is rare to find someone that is nice and kind i know there is alot out there that are nice we just have to find it
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• Romania
19 Oct 07
When a good friend disappoint you that is the time you are really "hurt" more.You always trusted him but.... you know the rest
• Australia
19 Oct 07
if a friend hurt you in anyway forgive them like your father up in heaven forgave us i like to be your friend
@laurika (4537)
• United States
19 Oct 07
Yeah i think it is really hard to find a good friends.I know what you are talking about when good friends dissapoint you, but we have to forgive them.If we don't want to lose them.i knwo maybe it is easier to forgive but it is hard to forget.We will never forget.But anyway about those friends.I am away from my friends about two years now and I am tring to find others new one, but didn't find anybody really.Yeah it is hard, but we have to try harder maybe.
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• Romania
19 Oct 07
But you can find friends here on mylot, you have us don't be disappointed that is why we are here.
@suspenseful (40326)
• Canada
20 Oct 07
I find it is not that hard. You just have to find someone who has similar interests. If you go to places, like your church or your club, you will find people who share the same things as you do, and that will make it easy. As your experiences change, then you and your old friends have things in common.
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
19 Oct 07
I never feel disappointed with old or new friends. Because I do not expect any thing from them. Instead, I am constantly thinking what I can do for them to make them happy. If you develop this attitude, you will soon stop complining about friends. Basically humans are selfish. Some friends come to you for some help and after that they get inovlved in their own personal work and forget you for a while until they want your help. That is life and you should understand this and forgive them and not forget them.
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@jillmalitz (5132)
• United States
19 Oct 07
Good friends are indeed hard to find. Many times friendships are based on similar likes and dislikes but sometimes interests change. Also people are so influenced by other people who sometimes dont have the best interest of us at heart that we lose who we thought we could trust.When we find someone who will be our friend through bad and good we need to appreciate them.
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