How you feel when your friend goes far away and it becomes difficult to contact

India
October 25, 2007 12:58am CST
I used to talk daily wit one of my friend but now he is going out as his job transfer ocurred. I am not feeling good.What to do?
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@yogeshdhusa (2237)
• India
25 Oct 07
Yes even i felt the same when my friend left me for further studies. however we found a easy way to stay connected, we always chat on net and the only thing we miss is going out together and a shoulder to cry. LIVE AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE
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• Philippines
25 Oct 07
My boyfriend and I used to see each other everyday, then I had to leave for the United States and stay for a few months. It's hard, but we still get to communicate everyday. We send each other e-mails and text messages, and once in a while he calls me or I call him. It takes effort to keep in touch but if you really want to contact your friend, there are a lot of ways to do it. We live in an age where technology has made keeping in touch with people from all over the world possible; we have the Internet and mobile phones now.
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• United States
25 Oct 07
I know from experience that this can be hard. My sister moved back to New Zealand and sometimes it can be hard to contact her. I worry about her and all I can do is wait to hear from her since she is hard to track down. She didn't move because of business but instead because her husband is from there and they moved so that they could live down there for a change. She usually goes there for two years and then comes back for two and then does it all again.
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@cobradene (1171)
• India
25 Oct 07
Well, it is difficult sometimes. When I was a child of 9, I was sent away from home to a new place and it was so difficult for me to make new friends over there because their behaviour and thinking was so different from mine and also the language was different. But surely, I started missing all my friends back home with whom I used to play everyday and also stay over sometimes and they would also come and stay over at my place. All those days were gone. It happened again in high school and even at other times. But then I slowly, got used to it and make it a point not to get used to anybody anymore. Just be good friends and give love, but don't get attached.
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• United States
25 Oct 07
I've been through the same thing. First lesson I had to learn is NO friendship will ever last forever, and they will eventually leave you behind, it's a bit sad to admit or to say, but I am still hurting myself, cause I just had this happen to me. All I can say is Next time, don't allow yourself to get too close to them and Don't let you heart get broken. Everyone who will come and go in your life will do just that...Nothing more and nothing less. So in my opinion, I say move on, unhppay or sad. By the way, even if you were actually still able to email your friends back and forth, you must realize that those friendship will no longer be the same as they were, so it's good to try to keep that in mind. HI wish you good luck with your life. Take care! - Lonely & Still Broken Hearted -
• Canada
25 Oct 07
My really good friends and I stay in contact via e-mail regardless of where they are, in the world, or where I am (I travel a lot between Ontario and Arizona) so we are always close, regardless of distance.
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