Do you sometimes miss your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?

@paigegal (438)
United States
October 25, 2007 7:43am CST
Well, for me, I used to hate my ex-boyfriend so much for cheating on me with my best friend. But I'm not sure, it's like I'll still think about him sometimes especially when I am unhappy regardless of what thing I'm sad for. Although I'll think about him sometimes but I'm really in love with my current boyfriend. Is it ok for me to act like this?
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7 responses
@bishu_sinha (1460)
• India
11 Dec 07
Boys r useless at the time of love. They don't want to do anything. only like to spend the day with there beloved, in general which is not acceptable to any body. In our society first boys should work to survive. And bonus if the girls also worked. Than why boys don't take the life seriously at the time of love, whereas girls take it very seriously to settle down. that's why they suddenly break up the relationship, when she get the smell of fruitless future. And in like this situation if the boys want to hang it's his foolishness. nothing alse have to say more.
@paigegal (438)
• United States
12 Dec 07
thanks for posting your comment.. your comment means a lot.. ^^
@paul8675 (750)
• Australia
11 Dec 07
I was married for 14 years and have been divorced for 6 years. My last 6 years has been happier for me than my first 14 on balance, so no, I have not missed her.
@paigegal (438)
• United States
12 Dec 07
different relationship will have different story.. in your case, i'm sure she did a lot of bad things to make you feel so..
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
14 Nov 07
Yesh, i used to too... I just didnt noe why such dramatic actions happened on me... Its as if im in some film.. Dun even think of him... Its all in the past... Cherish the present...
@paigegal (438)
• United States
6 Dec 07
You're right! Just forget all the past! They had became history....... Look forward.... I've found another guy that APPRECIATE me!!
• Philippines
6 Nov 07
yeeh i admit sometimes i miss him..its just that im thinking why we came out with separating..huh..im trying to forget him but i cant right now i still love him..i remember our happy moments when we were together, sweetness.. but time to move on..uu
@paigegal (438)
• United States
6 Dec 07
I do still love him few months before. But I think I had successfully came out from that HELL.. My boyfriend treats me really nice now and I enjoy the time with him.. Sometime people just CHANGE in a sudden...... all the memories will just only be a history....
@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
There are times that i think of him and all the things he did to me and hurt me bigtime
@paigegal (438)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Uuuuhhh.. you reminded me what he did to me before. It's just NOT FAIR! He is so..... cruel...... T.T But fortunately I'm OKAY now~~ hehe..
@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
I do remember them sometimes but I dont miss them. There are certain situation taht in one way or another would remind us of someone, particularly those people we loved before. But for me, remembering them in a way is just because I have spent with them a part of my life before, something that can never be erase. But it doesn't mean that I miss them.
@paigegal (438)
• United States
6 Dec 07
It's really great that you can say that you don't miss them.. I've tried to forget him but somehow I'll still flashing back those time we spent together.. It's hard to just forget them and I'll still miss the happiness we shared.
• United States
25 Oct 07
It's normal to miss somebody that you spent so much time with. Especially if they cheated on you or something and you just weren't ready to let go yet. My boyfriend broke up with me several months ago. I'm in a new relationship and I really like the guy but I still miss my ex. That doesn't mean I want him back or I'm mentally cheating on my new boyfriend, it just means that he was a big part of my life and I miss talking to him and hanging out with him. It's that simple.
@paigegal (438)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Thank you for telling me that. I felt weird sometimes when my ex message me or phone me. I'm not sure what he is thinking about and sometimes I don't like the feel. My current bf is really a good guy. I never thought that I would met someone like him. But since I do miss my ex, Thanks for telling me that is NORMAL! ^^