Tragic! It's trouble...

You have very well explained one of the strangest behaviour of human being. I am sure everyone of us must have experienced one time or the other. There is a thing called MATURITY. Very few people are able to get this maturity as the age progress and that maturity tells us to be clam even at times of crisis. Because when it is blown out, you have nothing else todo. So take on your side both extremes of happiness and unhappiness, Try to Control the emotions and then speak out. Always remember MAINTAIN THE BALANCE. If you keep telling your mind about maintaining the balance, the situation expressed by you can be minimised and by practice it can be eliminated so that we become decent human being.

Hi jeanniemay! Oh, yeah I get what you mean! hehe.. I am somehow guilty of that sometimes. I try to be nice and kind and do good. I am very calm and understanding. I am comapssionate too. Well, those are the qualities I am trying to be somehow. haha.. But when trials come, it seems everything that I stand for turn 360 degrees on the opposite direction. Whew! But good thing, my Lord holds me on a tight rein and I am very thankful to Him each time that I am about to lose myself. But one thing is sure, whenever I get in a bad situation, I really don't curse or say any profanities. Most of the time I just try to put up a brave face or smile , depending on how ugly the situation is. Take care and have a nice day.