If Somebody tried to hit you. What is the first thing you usually do.

@ayou82 (3460)
Philippines
October 30, 2007 12:23pm CST
I was mucking around with my hubby earlier and i accidentally hit him. We both are playful to one another and i didnt know that i already him amd he gave me 10 times painful blast and i was really hurt. Well for me that is not mucking around anymore thats physical reactions to what i have done. How about you guys how do you react? Do you give the same amount of pain ? or you tolerate the pain ?
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3 responses
@milkfish (375)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
When my husband and I are playful with each other, we never got to the point of physically hitting each other. I have a very low tolerance to pain and naturally, I will never tolerate being hit by somebody. I believ that your husband got too carried away with the playful mood that's why he hit you.
@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
Yeah i know he dont mean to do it.I know he wont hurt me..He is just playful..or maybe he thinks Im a wrestler who knows. LOL! Thanks !
@lkbooi (16101)
• Malaysia
31 Oct 07
I am sorry to say that, a gentleman will never hit his loved one in this way. What a 10 times painful blast! It was too much! If were to choose, I would tolerate the pain and let him know how painful I am. I will not give the same amount of pain to my loved one as I am hurt accidentally. Hitting our loved one when angry will gradually develop to a bad habit. So we must control ourselves not to hit our loved one no matter in what situation.
@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
I already told him that. I told him not to hurt me that much coz i have a very low pain tolerance. Sometimes in couples they use to muck around..Thanks anyways.
@jennybianca (12915)
• Australia
31 Oct 07
First of all, I would say that I have a very high tolerance of pain. However, y second comment is not so positive. I thin k it very strange that your hubby hit you ten times. I don't think it sounds like he was doing it for fun. Anyway, it is an odd sort of fun. If I am physically assualted, which has only ever been once by my husbands ex, I would onky defend myself, if necessary. I would not deliberately fight back, as this usually makes the matter worse. Anyway, I am not physically capable of being in fights.
@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
Of course i fought back. But he just laughed at me. because im a tiny girl so he just get less pain. Thanks Jen!