What if You heard this words...

@anne0418 (268)
Philippines
October 30, 2007 1:25pm CST
They said life is just a mtter of choice,where you are now is the way you choose life to be.One of the most painful part of life in a realtionship is,when you hear some hurting words from the person you considered as you life. What if one day you heard your partner in life sayong this,"I regret that i found you and i'm sick and tired of you" what would you feel and how can you handle the hurts you feel inside.You just did not hearf it once but everytime he said that when you have pity quarrels. As for me as the days go by,it really strucks my heart and i suddenly feel that im beginning to get tired too,now tell me is my the feeling i feel now is justifiable?or i need to think a million times to save the relationship.I really need your view or some right words of what to do,Cause this time i really feel bothered about it.Thanks and Godbless to all of us here.
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@cobradene (1171)
• India
30 Oct 07
It's a tough thing you have mentioned and I feel hurt as well. I really felt hurt when I read this, because even I've been told off by people in my childhood many times. I know how the feeling goes. We can't hope for anything, but pray. The pain is unavoidable, but we have to bear it. But all we can hope for is for things to get better and forgive and keep loving them. Just be patient and keep loving. You will find the happiness if you have the faith. God bless you!!!
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
yes! i agree too! if you really love the person... you can always forgive and forget! and maybe he was just stressed out that day he said that.
@jedhimura (194)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
I think the first question for this is, how many times did this happen? Because my comment will be based on that answer. Good bless!
@anne0418 (268)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
Well i do still remember the first time he said that to me thats was august 14,2006.Since that day everytime we quarrel he always repeat that,until then this past few days i discover and feel that im already tired too,but still i dont want to be harsh in deciding,i want to think it million times,so that i will not ended that i choose the wrong decision.
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
31 Oct 07
Those are truley hurtful words for anyone to hear,and an awful thing to say to anyone EVER...If i heard these words i would be crushed inside as you are and you are complely justified in feeling as you do...The person that is saying this to you has a way of killing with his words and has a very cruel side to them as well.What he is saying to you is very damaging to this relationship and if he continues on ,he will finally kill all the love you have for him.i have a son that is cruel this way and he has killed the love of every woman he has ever been with because he cannot control his tongue.I do not want to bring God into this but at this point i feel that i must,the Bible tells us that a man that cannot control his tongue has not got control of his body,and if a man can ontrol his tongue has total control of his body.Its up to you if you will continue this relationship or not,but believe me when i tell you this,you will soon loose all feelings for this person,words cut deep and not easily forgotten..Just keep in mind that this is NOT your fault,it has nothing to do with you..the person that is telling you this has the problem,not you.Words like this can cause bitterness to come into your heart,so be careful that that seed of bitterness does not affect you to the point of hate...But i can say that not only does these words kill but they can also destroy your trust in this person and soon you will lose respect for this person.If you feel this happeningto you,i would suggest that you end this relationship before it destroys you.This person knows that this is wrong and he needs to seek help in dealing with relationshps...good luck to you and God speed...
@clclbby (32)
• China
31 Oct 07
life is a hard game, We also had to make choice,If you lucky enough, outcome not the worse one,if unlucky, it wasX_X
@deserve40 (1642)
• India
31 Oct 07
It really hearts a lot. No doubt about that. This is true because, you loved a person and never expected this type of treatment. You were faithful and expected your loved one to be equally faithful to you. However, everyone does not get faithful love each time. If fact the root cause is your expectations from your loved one. If the same words were told by some casual friend of yours...then it could have been little shoking for you but it would not have heart you as much. You can forget it quite easily.
@cefaz_21 (2597)
• Philippines
31 Oct 07
I know it is hard for you..because teh fact that you wanted to save the relationship means you still have feelings for him..and it's hard to let go.. You have a choice though..you can choose to stay and save the relationship or you can just give up.. If you think he doesn't really care anymore and that he's tired of you and by that he'll treat you bad..I suggest you move on.. But if you think, he only say that when he's mad and he's if you think he still loves you despite of..then the relationship is worth saving for.. it's only you who can gauge it..but I do hope that whatever decision you end up to..you'll be happy because veryone deserve it.. blessings to you!
@ctrymuziklvr (11059)
• United States
30 Oct 07
Those are horrible words to hear from someone you care for. That's one relationship I wouldn't try to save. They say we tell the truth in the heat of passion which is what an arguement is and just to be able to say those words makes me think he's not a very caring man.