How hard is it for you to live with someone?

@dayzz25 (552)
United States
October 31, 2007 12:46pm CST
I think living with other people is very difficult. My boyfriend doesn't clean up after himself at all and it just annoys me. Why didn't his mother teach him to clean up after himself? Also he keeps me awake at night because he snores....sometimes I just want to kick him. I guess people just get set in their own ways and find it hard to adapt to other people's ways. Do you find it hard to live with other people?
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@musicman6 (2368)
• United States
3 Dec 07
Yes dayzz, it is hard to live with other people! I was like that with my ex-wife! But sometimes at the end of the day,when she would be asleep, I would just sit there and look at her, and wonder! because she did have some qualities, I didn't like, but then I would sit and think of all the good qualities she had, and it would come out in her favor, that she had more good qualities, than bad! And that was the only consolation that I had, to glorify her good qualities, and somehow they overrode her bad qualities!
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@dayzz25 (552)
• United States
3 Dec 07
That's a very good way at looking at things. Thanks. Have a great day.
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• China
3 Dec 07
Everyone has his own way of living... maybe some habits are good,some are not. But since you have choosen to live with him, you should learn to tolerant these bad habits... then you can adjust to it... maybe someday, when he is not here,snoring . you will feel that you've lost something, maybe you can't fall sleep any more...
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• United States
31 Oct 07
Yes, I find it very hard to live with other people. When you live with someone else (roommate or S.O), there is a lot of compromising that is done and sometimes it's hard to come up with an agreement. You have to deal with them in space that would normally be yours. I find it difficult to maintain privacy while sharing a place with my boyfriend. When I want privacy, he beings to think that I'm hiding something and it gets really annoying!
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@greenline (14865)
• Canada
19 May 08
Hi Dayzz. Yes, it's always hard to be living with other people. That saying would go for that other person(s) who is living with me , right ? So, I had decided to live just alone, doesn't matter the room is small. It's all mine , and I have all the freedom. And, that other person also has the room for himself too, which makes him feel very happy ! That works , right ?