having kids imediatley after marriage spoils a womans beauty... is this true...?

India
November 3, 2007 11:20pm CST
giving birth in a years time after u get married may spoil your beauty... this is what many people think.... is this true....? does it really spoil the beauty....? or does it make u look more beautiful.....?
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@nengs10 (3189)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
For me its not,Its depends how that woman handle her self,we have to be beautiful even if we have kids already,After givebirth we can go to Gym so that we can exercise and go to parlor.
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@THKOhio (330)
• United States
4 Nov 07
I had my first child three months after I was married, and it didn't change my looks at all. Sounds like something a man who doesn't want to have children would say, to try to talk a woman out of having a baby. Just my opinion, of course.
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• Philippines
4 Nov 07
If the couple is not matured and financially ready to have the baby in the family, the new mother will be stressful and becomes skinny. But if there is readiness, the new mother will become more beautiful because she is happy and enjoys the presence of the new member with them.
• India
4 Nov 07
It is not true that a lady's look get spoil after birth of a child in a years time after getting married. Infact a lady's look gets more beautiful after a child birth after an year. Scientifically, it is said that a newly married couple should have a child in a year and they should not postpone their pregnancy for unwanted reasons, because the thoughts of the newly wed couple's, transmedically enters in to the foetus and the child will be born more beautifully and will be very itelligent.
@JoyfulOne (6243)
• United States
19 Nov 07
Never heard of such a thing! Sure some people gain a lot of weight, but if they're properly motivated it's easier to come back off. And as far as stretch marks go, almost every mother gets them, not all, but a lot do. Once that precious baby's here, who cares about stretch marks in places that nobody can see? In my opinion, if somebody is soooooooo worried about a pregnancy ruining their perfect looks, maybe they're not a good candidate for motherhood anyways because they're overly concerned about 'looks'.
• United States
4 Nov 07
I am not married but I don't believe that having kids spoils a woman's beauty. In my opinion, pregnancy and creating a life are two of the most beautiful experiences that a woman can go through. My aunt got married in June of this year and they just found out that she's 8 weeks pregnant. I think this could not of happened at a better time!