Love

United States
November 4, 2007 2:38pm CST
I am engaged to a wonderful man! I love him with everything that I am. We live on opposites sides of the US and it is killing me being apart from him. We were suppose to be getting married in Jan but he wasnt ready which killed me inside but I understand. But I feel I am loosing him. I feel like he is loosing the love for me and it hurts! What do I do?
3 responses
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
4 Nov 07
did he tell you why he wasn't ready? maybe financially, maybe not ready to commit to just one person for the rest of his life or anything else? I read your comment that you trust him, so I hope he is just not ready financially nothing else.
• United States
10 Nov 07
He just said that he wasn't ready to take on a wife yet. Which I understand and all. Today I broke up with him because he is just not him anymore. I feel like he is changing but meanier. I used to be really mean to him when we first started to date and I went and got help to talk about my past and work thru it all. And he is just getting meanier and meanier. And I accused him of cheating and then I stopped and now when I say anything that has to do with he gave me the wrong time or he never picks up...he gets all defensive saying he isn't cheating. I don't think he is. I don't accuse till I have evidence! But today I told him Im letting him go Im tired of running after him. So we will see what happens
• India
4 Nov 07
I can understand your situation exactly. First of all how trusty worthy is your love? Coz' I was away from my love for 3 yrs and it wasn't like other part of Country but It was Other part of the World but still we kept in touch with each other over phone and mails and he took time to talk to me daily and let me know what was happening with him and what he was dng the whole day and he did ask what's gng on my side. After 3 long yrs of wait he came back to marry me once he was settled. So it is important to keep in touch with ur love and to make sure he isn't lying to u and lets your know what exactly is gng on with him.
• United States
4 Nov 07
see I trust him I really do. But like he used to call me all the time, and like even at 3 in the morning my time just to let me know he got to work ok. And well now it seems like he wont even talk to me antime. Im not bad mouthing him or anything I love him so much but he just seems like he is falling out of love. Like he is joined the military and all and so I guess it could be all the stress for him is starting to get to him. But it still wonders me.
@Jasmine78 (135)
• United States
10 Nov 07
Hi, the best is to just be yourself and wait to see. What he loved should be yourself. If he can not think you highly, then he might not the Mr. right for you. Every one is worthy to be loved by someone.