An unfaie matter
November 7, 2007 9:39pm CST
i met a very unfair matter yesterday,althouge the many people knew unfair,however all just said freely,do not take any action,however,i felt so is unmeaningful,since unjust,will presume to speak,spoke endocentric real viewpoint,this was the brave performance .However,doing like this will bring some serious results,will give offense to some people for example,will be stood alone an etc..I was confused now,how should handle these?
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8 Nov 07
Do not worry Alience and take things so hard. There are many problems or situations in our life where it is beyond our control. Blaming others will give more hurts to us. Unless you can find the solution to it. Better concentrate on new things than we can develop our life and for our better future life. If we keep on concentrating on the same unresolved problem, means we are wasting our useful time without gaining any good outcome or output. The imperative things to do is keep on going with new productive matter. Let gone be bygone and sometime we got solution to our previous problem while performing new things. OK Bye for now.
8 Nov 07
hi,my dear friend,im very happy you said that.thank you .as you said, there are more and more problem and situations that woe can not control.maybe we'd better concentrate on mew thing,but i think we should not give up,if there is a little chance to change.we should try our best,as the least ,im the person like that. but thank you all the same.good luck,wish unfair things will not happen in us.
8 Nov 07
i am sorry to hear that .but maybe that is the true life.sometimes we think a lot about myself.now maybe there are more and more people like that.so we see many unfair thing happening ,but we don't take any action.we first think that may be bad to me ,why somebody else take actions,why it is me ? or maybe you feel shy to do that.after that we know we are wrong and we should take some action.i also encounter such things.i tell myself to take actions next time . maybe we human beings are not too wise enough to avoid all the wrong things.we make mistake and meditate them and then do the right next time .the most important thing is that we human beings can meditate and overcome the problems.then we can make progress. we should not feel too sad ,what we should do is to avoid such thing next time.Good luck!!
8 Nov 07
my suggestion is let it go. something you have tha ability to charge, others you can not. if you think your help can let the matter go towards a right way, and none is hurt, just do it. but you don't know whether it will hurt yourself, just let it go. the others who has the ability will take charge. never worry about that.