decide...decide :)

Philippines
November 10, 2007 3:07am CST
Who do you prefer, a guy with good looks but hard to love or an unattractive one but sweet and loving? As for me, I prefer a guy with kind and understanding heart. :) Physical features aren't that enough to say you love a guy. Yes he may be handsome and descent but without the heart and the willingness to love, nothings gonna happen :)
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11 responses
@noriko (1254)
10 Nov 07
thats not that complicated to decide. there a lot of beauty that the eyes can not see, and it can only felt through the heart.
@Margajoe (4720)
• Germany
10 Nov 07
I used to say the same thing. I have had my share of relationships, and have come to one conclusion. Nobody is perfect in a relationship. I have had handsome men and very ugly men. There really is no difference. If you cannot get along with each other, then forget it. Has nothing to do with looks. Right now, the last year, I have found a man I can relate to. For the first time in 41 years I can say , it just happens. He stayed over on the 1st of jan 2007, and has been here ever since. Good looking too! And we accually tolerate one and other. It just works. Normally when I am with someone for more then two weeks, I need my space! This... I really have no explanation except, it works or it does not. Take care, have a nice day.
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@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
11 Nov 07
Right. The content of the heart matters. With good looks or not, still, the heart matters. Hehehehehe.
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
Yes, you're definitely right and I want you to know that somehow, you know a bit of what's inside my heart.:)
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
Yeah. I understand what you mean and you comprehend what I meant too. You take care always... Me, I go for someone with good heart, with no great import to appearances. :D LY
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
I do pray you find your man in a day you know not, and that he takes care of you like his own body, without putting the priority to himself. Good luck!
@nkhanna (925)
• India
11 Nov 07
i would prefer a man who loves me,cares for me,respects me n last bt not the least understands me n my feelings.he sud nt make joke of it.looks r not at all important fro me.bt fortunately i got a man who is good looking as well as understanding.ur approach is true.all the best
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
Good for you! :) You're really right. What matters most is the feeling that draws us to the person.
@wisedragon (2330)
• Philippines
11 Nov 07
I think less mature girls who don't have much experience still live in a fantasy world where they're looking for "showbiz" type, cute or handsome guys. On the other hand, more mature women who have already had their heart broken tend to prefer men who are decent and faithful. They don't care about looks anymore. So good for you. You seem to be mature.
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
Yes you're right. When I was a child, I really used to like good-looking boys and I always disgust ugly ones. But, as years went by, I have discovered that looks isn't a best criteria to have a feeling of love for that man I wished to be with.
• India
10 Nov 07
you approach is very positive.Wish a happy, prosperous and peaceful life.
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
thanks :)
• China
11 Nov 07
For me,feeling matters mostly,there are some girls who are very beautiful,but I dont like,however, some others that are sweet ,kind,cute but not pretty are attractive to me.
• United States
11 Nov 07
You know what I am not going to lie. I want the whole package. I don't feel that either have got to be separated. It is completely possible to have a man who is not only attractive, but is a sweetheart in ever sense of the word. With a great personality, wonderful manners and who knows how to respect a woman. Why choose one or the other. Its never good when you only have two choices because its always bad. I just want it all. I'm greedy.
@tryxiness (4548)
• Philippines
11 Nov 07
As long as the guy loves me, and I guess, I love him. Then whether he has good looks or not. It does not matter. :)
@Moliliuzu (141)
• China
11 Nov 07
Maybe we can fall in love with some guy in the first sight just beacause his good looking.But it isn't enough to support a relationship.When you really love someone you love his characters and sweety!well,the good looking maybe part of the reason but not all!
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 07
Trust your heart which one is better. Only your heart can recognize the person, even though a person who was born beautiful/handsome, some of them yet has a good understanding too. Don't judge all of them are no more than egotistical people, because some of them still own the opposing behavior. Each people owns his/her own characteristic, including their good or bad side. And it's random.