is it right for people to be in love with somebody in student life

@nishurs (582)
India
November 14, 2007 7:55am CST
well the main aim of the student should be aimed at gaining knowledge and applying it and the distraction like love will somehow hamper this intentions
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9 responses
• India
14 Nov 07
First of all the point i would like to put forward is none falls in love knowingly.you can take me as an exaple.when i joined the college my initial feeling was that i should not fall in these silly things and waste my time and even to a certain extent i was succesful.but when i saw her, i should say i forgot everything and fell in love with her.now i am still at college with my studies and i dont think has not worsened my studies infact it has helped my studies since we are cllassmates and we discuss our chapters together.anways it was a very nice topic posted you thats worth responding.happy mylotting dear friend.
• United States
14 Nov 07
Personally, my sole intention in college is to acquire knowledge that I can apply to my life and somehow begin a career. Falling in love happens... its natural... and sometimes uncontrollable. Although splitting your focus between a significant other and the books, being in love is not necessarily a distraction or hinderance unless you let it be.
@academic2 (7009)
• Uganda
18 Nov 07
If the student is an adult, there is away they can manage their roles without too much conflict. Love is a drive that you can rarely postpone once you become of age-the best to do is to balance the love escapades with one's academics. Healthy living entails a bit of fun that love brings and it would sound unfair to shut out an adult just because of studies. Never-the-less for those below the adult age, love should be made to wait until they are mature enough to manage their love life visa-vis their studies. Teens below 18 have no business indulging in love matters while at school.
@furion1 (274)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
True. Being in-love with someone is a distraction on our studies but it can't be helped. Love has such a huge influence on us. I am a student and I think falling in-love is alright. I have time for my studies and time for her. Sometimes, love gets in the way with studies and sometimes studies gets in the way with love.
@paulit03 (93)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
loving someone is not wrong even though you are in the stage of student life. why it is because love was created to make people happy. love is not the reason of distraction. it is us , ourselves who makes the distraction and make love as the problem. well we are wrong. love is supposed to be happy and inspiration to do the things easily and to be happy..
@khateya (265)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
love can start at any time anywhere. you can't control it when i want to come. Love at studying time is not a mistake as long as you can limite your time for study and love. you should tell yourself that love will make you think alot and it is harder than ur task at school.
• India
15 Nov 07
I think there is no harm to fall in love but we should not fall in love at this age bcoz while falling in love we think that we will manage everything but actually when our relationship goes deeper and deeper then we realise that it is getting affected on our studies bcoz we don't have control on our emotions and thinking at this stage. So, its better to finish study 1st then go for this.
• India
15 Nov 07
no its totally wrong,bcoz life in scool,i mean every day is orecious,every day is as worth as earning 100 or more RS in a day,then why to waste it students should attend there class with total committment
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
Hi nishurs! I think we can't really chose the time or whom we will fall in love. It just happens. i think we just have to be more responsible and more discipline and just keep in mind of our priorities. However, being young sometimes make us more foolish when it comes to love. I have fallen in love during my college years and but that didn't affect my schooling. I guess, I have my priorities set and this may not be true with other young students. So, in my point of view, it is just right to fall in love and feel that beautiful feeling but it is not right to set aside or take for granted schooling or studies because of it. Take care and have a nice day.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
of course, but to control the feelings and emotions are not easy. specially if the person you like like you too. sometimes having a relation ship during the schooling years affects the studies.