my bf: bestfriend or boyfriend?

@jona06 (78)
November 14, 2007 7:19pm CST
quite possible that your bestfriend might fell in-love with you....since you share common thoughts and ideas....share commmon likes.....and that you are always together.... you had already shared moments together.... either its happy...sad and even pain....and you consider him as your bestbud or more... as your brother... but you can't fight it....you he already feels something special...but you only consider him as your bestfriend....is it right for him to feel that way????
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bong_domingo
@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
love often blossoms from proximity... i don't think its wrong that he feels that way or you feel the same way. what's wrong is if he's into a relationship and he's falling for you
jona06
@jona06 (78)
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15 Nov 07
but what if... the guy would ask his bestfriend... that he would like to court his bestfriend.... what would be the right thing or decision to be done???
bong_domingo
@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
so?? what's the big problem with that if you have feelings for him too. but don't rush..please
hyzz1982
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
15 Nov 07
if he is a kind of boy you liked. why not? it is too diffcult to find one have such more common with you. just do what you like. boyfriend is more closer than bestfriend. what more, if he will not be your boyfriend. do you have the same chance to chat with him after you get marry? so, my suggestion is just do it. :D
jona06
@jona06 (78)
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15 Nov 07
but bestfriends....is the only thing you feel for him... how's that???
franklin88
@franklin88 (333)
• India
15 Nov 07
No its not like that,our best friend knows about us well.So if we accepts them as our girlfriend she understands me well and we can lead a happy life.
jona06
@jona06 (78)
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15 Nov 07
but you only treats him as your bestbud....and you cannot accept him as someone more special than a friend...bestfriend that is.... how can you handle such situation like this??
apsara60
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
17 Nov 07
Feelings are unpredictable and so is love. Love is not something that happens by preplanning or by taking into account advantages or disadvantages of falling in love with particular person. Love just happens and there is more possibility that a best friend can become more than a friend and may want to have you in his or her life for ever and ever, so I see no harm in this. Besides if you don't want your friend to become your lover, you can always talk to him/her , after all he or she is you best friend because they understand you the best, so you can always express you true feeling and be honest and best friends.
naty40
@naty40 (35)
• Philippines
17 Nov 07
if you do love him too..why not..and if not... tell and explain to him what he really is to you... don't you ever let your friendship go to waste dear....just because of this....