How will you wait for someone you love till she/he loves you?
By ebtenorio
@ebtenorio (765)
Philippines
November 14, 2007 11:31pm CST
Have you been waiting for someone you really love that one day she/he will love you too? For how long will you be spending your time waiting? Have you thought that it is possible for love to flourish between these two? Please help. I want some advice... for someone I know. Have a great day. T.T
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7 responses
@singlepixel (2743)
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15 Nov 07
Eb my friend, you sound a little upset but don't worry, take it slowly - you'll learn to master this patience in time.
your post reflects that you're a romantic person and i bet you are!
this is what i heard somewhere, "let her go, if she returns to you, she's yours - but if not, keep moving..."
great topic!
@singlepixel (2743)
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16 Nov 07
you are a faithful man Eb, i must say.
and JD, wow, you sounded romantic too...he he he..
@singlepixel (2743)
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16 Nov 07
what do you worry about? those caterpillars in your garden?
..he he he..
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
tnx. :-( I may have to do a little more of waiting... till my last breath leaves me, I shall be waiting... Jacob waited for Rachel for 7 years then deceived by Laban... then he again waited for 7 years for Rachel, totaling to 14 years of waiting. I could offer my lifetime waiting for her... That is how I love her, singlepixel. Thanks..
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@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
it's pretty hard to wait for something you're not sure will come or for something with no promise of what you hope for. The possibility may go either way in opposite direction.
Yes it's great to be loved back by the one you love but its far more noble to see the one you love become a better person whether by loving you or someone else.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
Ok then... Thanks... I shall tell that person about this advice... Whew. Hehehehe. But then I'll just tell him too to put high his flames high still... that he may see the reality. I hope... Thanks :D
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
18 Nov 07
Uhm... T.T i understand you now. I will have to see it that way: "its far more noble to see the one you love become a better person whether by loving you or someone else." I will have to see it that way. Things have changed I think. And I wanna cry. Good day. T.T
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
18 Nov 07
Love is a chemistry that runs in every body in love. Dont be fooled, nobody will love you in two years if he doesnt love you today. It is another matter waiting on someone to finish school or get of age before he/she expresses the love, because the situation here is that the love is very muh there except there are only impediments to expressing it, but to imagine that someone will fall in love with you in future is a dream. If some one tells you that, just start searching.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
18 Nov 07
Ok then academic... thanks a lot... I think... nah.. never mind.. I am starting to cry.
@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
for me if its worth waiting for then i'll wait and if i feel there's a possibility that he will give back the love that i 've given then i'll wait. But of course we know when to wait and when its not. Days pass by so we have to get moving and i believe if its really meant for you then that time will come. You just have to spend your time away from that person and live your life and if in time fate crossed your path and both of you are still available then maybe you are really meant for each other.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
Ni shr "courageous", wo de peng you. xie xie ni. however, wo ai "that girl".:)
@Leigh_char11 (42)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
It's really hard to wait for someone to love you. It takes courage, patience and true love to wait for that person. But that doesnt mean that you just wait and do nothing.
Just wait and pray for that day when the person you love will also love you. But if you've been waiting all your life and it just seem impossible. Then the most practical thing to do is let go of that person and let her/him be happy.
@kittypinky (245)
• China
16 Nov 07
yes ,i'm still waiting for the one i loved and still love.i don't know wheather it is right, but i want to do that .
good luck to you !!
