not love???

@jona06 (78)
November 15, 2007 12:04am CST
sometimes its not love.... sometimes, you've just become so attached that you've developed a need for that person....just a need....not love...but you're to scared to admit it, even to yourself...coz is you do, you might lose the only person that actuilly gives a damn about you life.... how could this be forgotten??
6 responses
@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
15 Nov 07
Yeah, I agree. Sometimes dependence, attachment and emotional reliance is mistaken as love and many a times I have seen ppl ending up in disaster due to this. We can only compromise by having a relationship out of this. Love doesn't come easy, we have to realise when the real love happens. And when it happens we will feel it no matter what. smlies..
@jona06 (78)
15 Nov 07
but the person is scared to admit such...if he/she does... something bad might happen.... and how would someone fell to a relationship if he/she is just feeling a need for that person??and not love............
@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
15 Nov 07
jona, It's indeed difficult to make that someone understand that it is only dependence and not love. I feel, he/she should talk to the concerned person and talk very clearly and let him/ her know that its not love. It's always better to bell the cat in the beginning. good luck!
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
15 Nov 07
love is a strange feeling. there are more sorrow than happy in love. when you wanna know whether it is a love, just feel whether you are not happy if he/she ignore you.
@jona06 (78)
15 Nov 07
but you are little by little dying inside... that you can't ignore what you feel... how about this??
@naty40 (35)
• Philippines
17 Nov 07
don't you ever be afraid of letting that go... you know that inside of you... that really are not in-love with him...so girl..you better start to forget her,,.. there are still other guys...if not now... i guess in the future...
@smacksman (6074)
16 Nov 07
The word 'love' has become so degraded that it now hard to exactly specify what it is. I think your comment '... become so attached that you've developed a need for that person...' is as close a definition as you need for love.
15 Nov 07
when you love a peason,you must dare to the adventment to the wishes,you must let the other side understnad that the heart,otherwise,you will be too late for regrets.in china ,has a films,which of the dialogue,is the most thought-provoking,"once ,i have a love in the face of ,i have no treasure ,and now i regret,if give me a chance,i would say three word,i love you ,if must give it a time limit,i hope it is 10,000 years."
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
isn't it ironic that you're afraid to lose someone who gives a damn about your life yet you don't give a damn to be brave for yourself