If you are married do you live with parents/parents-in-law?
By akumei1269
@akumei1269 (1749)
India
October 28, 2006 2:20pm CST
If you are married do you live with your parents or parent-in-law ?
4 responses
@maya_n_bennett (4687)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Im married but I do wish I dont have to live with them for long time. I dont mind living with my parent but Im sure there will be differences between with my parents and my hubby and I dont want to live ith my in law because if I have to live with them, my parents have to be there too. I know it sound crazy but that how I feel. But I hope it never come to it though.
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@akumei1269 (1749)
• India
30 Oct 06
You are very clear about what you like in this respect . Yes , it will be easier to keep up good relations staying away .Thanks for your response
@akumei1269 (1749)
• India
28 Oct 06
Yes it is better keep a distance than to have friction . But it would be better if the touch can be maintained from distance .
i am also married and living with my parents . Barring some sporadic mismatch of opinions we are well .
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
28 Oct 06
My grandmother lived with us when I was a little girl. Back then she was paid $15 plus board and room every week for watching my brother and I and doing all the housework. It was a great money-saver for my parents. However, years later my mother has finally admitted that it was very trying for her. She was a young mother who worked full time, and when she was home she was a bit awkward at some of the home tasks. I guess my grandmother complained about what she did a lot.
@akumei1269 (1749)
• India
30 Oct 06
Sbeauty , I am sorry I could not decide waht rating should I give your response. Because , perhaps due to my limitation ,I could not figure out exactly what you were telling . Let me first describe what I have understood :your grandmother got some benefit for looking after you and your brother and doing alot of domestic work. What she got was not commensurate to how much labor she had to deliver .
Am I right or totally wrong ? If wrong what is the right ?
If right what conclusion have you come to based on the fact you observed about your grandmother's fat ?
