Big Mouth: Blabber Mouth: Gossip

if it's a councellor or priest then for sure they break more than your confidence by doing that. but if it's friends well you know there is nothing much you can do but never trust them anymore. you won't believe how many people I knew did that, but it's been some time now I have learned to find out who to trust etc so I didn't make the same mistake again

Her name would be jennifer would it?.LOLOLOL!!! I have a friend jennifer and she has a friend name annika.well everytime annika does somthing, Like bring a guy home or if her son gets hurt or as little as throw a temper tantrum.best believe she is on the phone tellen me all about it.lol she swears that she doesnt do that same about me to her.. but what would you beleive.lol she has done it wother other of her friends as well.and calls me whenever they lift a move in an akward position.lol sorry to hear about your friend i know how frustrating it can be.as i do have a friend like that.though she will not confess to it.lol Mabey talk to her and let her know that u didnt appreciate the news spred,and that if it happends again,(if you ever do tell her anything anyway) that you will not be tlaking to her about anything other then okay to broadcast talk.... have a great day hun:)

I have met people like that and I do not like it. I find that sometimes they do not know that they are betraying your confidence and it is just that they do not think. That is why I am very careful of telling something to someone if it is of a personal nature. It often takes me years before I finally get around to it. It is wrong to blab confidences.

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Hi littlefranciscan! Oh, I hate those kind of people. They try to gain your trust and as soon as you get to trust them with almost every feelings and thoughts you have, she will readily call the person involve and tell her everything what you just told her. Gosh, once when I was so hurt, I told an "in law" all the pain that I have been experiencing and what I was doing then is to have a shoulder to cry on, and the after i have left her house, she quickly called the person involved of everything that was said and twisted it some way to make it appear that I was insulting the other person. I never forgot that incident and I never trusted her since then even though she appears to be very sweet and so friendly. She is like a wolf in sheep's clothing. Learned my lesson and never been that so trusting with just anyone anymore. Take care and have a nice day.

It is really hard to choose the right person to tell your secrets. because sooner or later, your secrets are being broadcast already. Even your most closest friend or family members are prone of telling your most hidden facts. So when telling your secrets, somehow, accept the facts that it will be known by others,too as soon as you least expect.

This has, unfortunately, happend to me recently, and it was my sister! I confided in her and asked her not to tell my other sisters, and she immediately called them and told them exactly what I said! Her reasoning was that I sounded so upset that she thought, it was best to tell them. It turned out ok, but now I have to find someone new to confide in, since she obviously can't handle it :( It's sad, but I think we all have to be more careful on who we trust. It's the state of the world we live in.

Some people just can't help themselves and have to flap their traps. It's hard to find people we can trust. I have trust issues and find it hard to trust people. My ex husband and most guys I have dated have cheated on me so this is part of the reason for my trust issues. Sometimes we need to talk to someone about something that is bothering us because talking about it can help. But if the person you talk to breaks your trust and tells others about what you have said then it makes us wonder if it's even worth confinding in someone.

I would never break a confidence unless I feared for the safety of the person, like a child who says I feel like hurting my self or a girl who tells you she is bulimic, I would only go to someone I know would help them though, it would not be a public announcement.