What's the age difference between your & your partner?

my husband is in his 40's and i'm still in my 20's...barely 20's, but I can still claim it! LOL

Jocking with them about their age is fun.

Well the joke is that he is in his 30's and I am in my 20"s

I believe that you have that much more experience than he does or did because you were in the military. I have friends who say that the military gave them knowledge that would only be experienced by a person who lived 20 years more than they did.

Yeah, the whole military experience changes people.

yea, in a way it's like a whole lifetime of experince wraped in just a few years. I know people my age who haven't experinced half as much as I have. Most of it is due to the fact that I was in the military. It's weird how that can change so much about a person's life. Normally 4-5 yrs wouldn't make a difference to anyone, throw in the military and you might as well be talking about 20-30 yr difference. It does make things a little weird at times.

It's good that you get along well with each other. you must have gotten a 'mature' one LOL

hahahaha, not really. I've never met a mature adult male, lol. My husband is more like an oversized child that I have to deal with every day. Sometimes he is worse then my kids. He can't pick up after himself, cook or do laundry. He can't even get the dirty clothes in the hamper when he is changing right next to it (what is up with that?) The only thing he does do is change diapers. I pretty much refuse to do it when he is home since I do every other thing around here. I always chalked it up to the fact that he went from living with his mother to living with me at the age of 23. He never had to fend for himself. His mother babied him and did everything for him.

Yeah, the whole cleaning up after themselves and putting clothes in laundry basket boggles my mind. My husband is 40 and still doesn't do that@!

Exactly I want a man not another child to take care of LOL

that's no fun. good luck

I dated guys my age and close to it and they were like dealing with teenage kids...it was very frustrating. So I was very happy when I found a guy that was mature - at least at my maturity level lol.

Relationships are hard, but I always believe that if it's meant to be, i'll happen. =)

Yeah, there is always something to learn from each and every relationship.

Yes, I believe the same. And if it's not meant to be, maybe it was something you had to learn from it. So far we're doing pretty well, =)

That sounds like an awesome relationship. Congratulations on finding such a good match.

Our relationship is a mutual one. No one runs the other, but he is the head of the house hold, but don't forge that i'm the neck and I move the head anyway I want it to move.

My father in law is 15 years older than my mother in law and they've been married for over 40 years.

I have to disagree with you. i don't think that the husband needs to be older than the wife and I REALLY disagree when you say the he CONTROLS both of them...crazy crap if you ask me. Thanks for posting.

I knew my husbands age when I met him, but it never really mattered.

thanks for posting.

i love it!!!!!

haha! thanks for posting

This is not a complaining post, this is a curiosity post. I am thankful for what I have and for what God gave me. So don't judge because I stated a scientific fact that men develop emotionally slower than women.

Right, maturity level is what makes the relationship work.

The relationship is what's important. Age is just a number

Age IS just a number.

Sweet deal.

Like I said before, age is just number.

thax 4 posting