How Do You Feel?

@2babita (1074)
India
November 21, 2007 1:58am CST
When your grown up daughter insult you in front of everybody how you feel?Yesterday it happen to me and I am very depressed about it.Can my mylotters friends help me?
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@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 07
Hello 2babita, I am sorry to hear this! I am not sure why your daughter could do that to you. As a daughter, she is supposed to respect you and always think high of you. She shouldn't do that especially in front of other people. Did you ask her why she dare to insult you? What had happened? She might be angry at you but that is not the reason for her to have the right to insult her own mother!
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@monty24 (154)
• India
21 Nov 07
It sounds really very bad.You should make her understand that u r her mother she should give u a minimum respect.Don get so depressed fight it back....gud luck
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@suehan1 (4355)
• Australia
21 Nov 07
hi try a litle reverse psycology.do it to her in front of her friends,then when she calms down,ask her how did it feel.then tell her how you felt when she did it to you.i have done it to my daughter 17 and she never speaks to me rudely anymore in fear of what i may say to her friends.we just laugh about it now.good luck
@dbhattji (2507)
• India
21 Nov 07
It happens very often now because of changing culture, it is best to keep quite at that time and later when things are quite to discuss with her to avoid further similar incidences.
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@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
25 Nov 07
WEll thats really depressing and I will feel shame of whats my daugter act to me. Maybe I will just do the same with her too since she don't have the right to do that to me I'm his mom she's only a child.
• India
23 Nov 07
Well,sorry to hear about that but i personally feel that it is due to lack of communication and understanding between you and your daughter;With proper communication with your daughter you can gain back your respect to her.
@cdparazo (5768)
• Philippines
22 Nov 07
It is indeed difficult to have teenage daughter. One has to understand better and be more communicative with ones child for one not to end up quarreling with ones children. however, even if the parent is in the wrong, the child is still not excused in showing disrespect for ones elders. It is something that i would never tolerate.