help

@nkhanna (926)
India
November 23, 2007 2:04am CST
one of my best friend is having a serious problem in choosing the right guy for herself.actually there are two guys who love her lot and the most interesting tihng is that they obth are also good friends.they know that both of them love the same girl.she is really very confused as to what she should do ?i told her to rather leave both of them since i feel they are just playing with her heart.she is losing contrl of her studies as well.however those guys are very good in their studies and doing good.i really dont know what to suggest her?can anyone help my friend?
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8 responses
• Philippines
24 Nov 07
while she is still confused just let things be... i she running out of time to decide who to choose? i think she needs time to think for herself who matters most.... if can't know that yet then prevent her from making any decisions :-)
@kurtbiewald (2629)
• United States
24 Nov 07
hmmmmmmmm she is stringing along 2 guys, and ya'll are complaining about THEM playing with her heart?
@loisse21 (216)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
well on my point of view, its really hard to choose. in these times she should use her heart. she could only love one person anyway and she should choose the one who weighs more in her heart. If she tells you that she loves both of them equally then tell her not to choose anyone since that is not love--its just excitement. just a reminder, its not a matter of CHOOSING the RIGHT guy, its MAKING the guy you love the right one. so she should overlook the strengths and weaknesses of the two guys, she should focus more on her heart. :)
@todine (40)
23 Nov 07
Is she falling in love with one of the guys? If so, then she should choose the one she loves. If both guys are doing good in school, the more that she shouldn't be losing control over her studies. She needs to concentrate on her studies. If she doesn't love of the guys, then she should just date somebody else. :) Good luck to you and your friend
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
As for me the best thing you could do is to make your friend understand that if these guys really love her they won't make anithing to make her fail in her subjects or even distract her. it's hard to be in that situation so better understand her and sympathize ti her feelings while also try suggesting her that she should really be pressured to choose either one of them cause they would wait for her if they really liked her a lot. but if she loves either one of them she should just admit it so everything would be settled and also she doesn't have to be confused. because either of them would understand right? and if they don't it's not her problem. they should just accept her decision because that's where she is happy. ^_^
@shak143 (1280)
• India
23 Nov 07
your friend ahs to take a decision about it as soon as possible as you told that she is not able to concentrate onher studies if she continues it will affect her carier and also her future.let first told her to concentrate on her studies and get setteld in life if any one of these 2 guys are there for her till then then go with him.if none of them is there then leave it and go for another.
@dreamy1 (3818)
• United States
23 Nov 07
Tell your friend not to date these guys and see someone else. Or tell her to date both of them. She's probably young so she can go out and date and have fun and not worry about getting serious with either one right now. She is crazy to let her school work suffer for it so tell her to snap out of it and study!
@ravibabli (1558)
• India
23 Nov 07
Well I think she has to decide that who's prefer but I think She should look both guys activities and hobies and another habits and which activities like same with her than she can decide to fail in love.