Marriage Made In heaven to sat the least
November 25, 2007 11:13pm CST
The proplem i have and i hope whoever reads this is a strong supporter of my delima, I'm very unhappy, you see i just did 11 years in federal priosn and i walked into trap and i cant seem to get out. The situation is like this i went away for 11yrs my ex wife 1. started dating someone along the line, 2. when i left she was thin now shes overwieght (fat). Im at a halfwayhouse but i live with her, i have other places to go stay, but if i leave again my kids might not take very well. I am unhappy with this girl i need someone to help me, come to some kind of reason.
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28 Nov 07
Hi & Hello, George_confirm. She has sacrificed her 11 years of life for you and taking care our kids in well mannered, and you want to take a shortcut for your decision making?. It is very unfair, George. Why not just think positive and as a way of respect to her, build up your family new life. I am feeling deep sorry to you for your 11 years predicaments and ordeals. But now it is your turn to sacrifice for your wife and family by not taking any self-centered step to run back and on your new mark of life. She need you. New life with new happiness. Rebuild. Happy Postings and Earnings, George_confirm. HAPPY DAPPY.
• United States
29 Nov 07
If you love her then her wieght is no big deal. But it sounds like you need to set your priorities. 11 years is enough time to do that. So my question is what did you learn in 11 years? I have done time myself. Not just a little either. I set my priorities and when I got home I followed my goals. 5 years has gone by now and Im well on my way to finish my goals.
• United States
29 Nov 07
Hello George WOW looks like you have both been thru alot!! however if you LOVE her you will accept her just as she is while you were serving your time for the last 11 years she has been doing both her job and your job. she didnt have the other 50% to help her out so shes done both parts of the relationship, knowing that she found someone else sometime in the last 11 years well.....its human nature. She needed a companion you were away and she needed love and attention too. If you hadn't of done whatever you did then you wouldnt be in this predicament and she wouldnt have went thru what she went thru. As far as the kids, well you havent been with them for 11 years you dont have to be with her to see your kids. By this point ur kids are probably grown enough to tell you what they want so if you choose to get a divorce have a meeting with your kids and let them know exactly what you want to do, communication is a big key communicate with your wife and explain to her how you feel get her feelings on the situation then set down with the kids like two grown adults and let them know how you feel. Tell them you want to be a part of their lives but cannot be in the relationship any longer. I wish you the best of luck its going to be rough for a little while but YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE YOU MUST MAKE THE BEST OF IT you cannot live for someone else you have to live for yourself!!!!