Being A Family Man??

It's very easy to say for this question gourab... that if i have a family.. i just calculate my daily life.. before getting married... and then.. i just stop wasting the time..that i spend unnecessarily and start enjoying with my family its very east... if we follow that we might stop all bad habits

Hello dear friend. Being a family man, he is sure to have a lot of responsibilities for the family, the main one of which is to make as much money as he could to support his family to make them live a comfortable and easy life without letting the family getting too much worry about daily life. It is not easy for a family man, especially for a middle-aged family man, when he has both his parents and his own family to take care of. He is really burdened with a lot of life and work pressure on him. What could a family man do? In order to reach all the aims that is set and placed before him, he has to choose to work sometimes far away from his family for the good life of his family and sacrifice himself a lot in his faimil pleasure for years till he has got enough to get retired from his work to spend the rest of his late life. Of course, to some lucky one, he could get his success or make his fortune in a short time once he has found the right direction in doing his own business. You know, not all of the family men are that lucky. Things may vary based on different people. In short, life is not easy and somewhat difficult, but so long as you are happy with your life and work and try to reach your goal, I think, that life is still fulfilled and pleasant though you have sacrificed a lot on your side. Thanks so much for your discussion, dear gourab. I enjoy it very much. Have a good time, my dear friend.

When my husband and I had separate careers, sometimes I worked nights and he worked days, and we only saw each other for about 5 minutes as he was coming in and I was going out and then he was asleep when I got home and I was asleep when he left for his job. Then a miracle happened and we were able to share a job, where we were together 100% of the time both at work and then at home, too. That was just the most amazing experience. We never got tired of being together and having completely different skills we really worked well together. Now we are both retired and still together 100% of the time. He is more like your mom and likes to watch the TV, which is what he is doing now, but we set up our media room so that we are side by side and I can look up and see his TV show if it seems interesting and if he wants to use the computer, I can "beam" the windows to his TV. We also set up dedicated personal speakers for each device so we can send the sound back and forth, yet still be able to talk to one another. It is really the best of all possibly worlds, and was well worth waiting for and working hard to accomplish. I think that if you have a strong enough goal to focus on, it is easier to get through the "hard" times. Good luck!

Hello hi_gourab, I am a woman and it is such a bless to have a good family. Right after having my baby, I can't stay away from home for too long. I miss my son, my husband and my happy family. It doesn't matter how busy I am, I still make it a point to spend at least an hour a day for my family especially my little son.