When somebody makes fun of you!!!
By stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
India
December 4, 2007 12:30am CST
We all face it once or twice in our life..!!
Poeple making fun of yours!!
Ohh....but with me this happens every day!!! :P
Well actually its me only. I some how unintentionaly creat very hillarious moments..!! so people just can't stop making fun of me..!!
I can laugh on myself its not a big deal. After all you are making some body laugh because of you its good.
But when do you know that they have crossed the line in making fun of yours..!!
This is the problem with me I sometimes forget my self respect while laughing with them who are actually making fun of me!!!
And as being a girl its not good.
:)
5 responses
@successmode1101 (172)
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13 Dec 07
If those people making fun of you are your so called friends; then cut them loose. A true friend would not do that.Maybe they don't realize how it affects you or they just don't care. You don't need to be around any one that will make you have low self esteem. It's just not worth it.
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
13 Dec 07
oh..its nothing that serious..!!
Some times fun with friends is ok even I make fun of them somtimes. so makin fun of each other is not really an issuue here.
The problem is when they crosses the limit of making fun. I always stay in my limits.
But some times my friends get involved so much that they forget that it may hurt me some times. So I just want a good way to tell them to stop.
:)
@successmode1101 (172)
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14 Dec 07
Then if it is that way , you should just tell them how you feel and ask them to stop. If they are your friends , they will stop it.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
5 Dec 07
Dear Stella
just think b4 u speak and it will save u from lot of problems
i hope u understand
and hey, dont worry, if u r right its Ok, college age is all are lively, carefree and enegetic, they like HALA GULA, so they may target one of group for that
and sure soon u will learn how to transfer it to other
take care
all best wishes are 4 U
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
5 Dec 07
yea..I myself enjoy this hala gula..a lot..!!
Well actually its me who do kind of comedy all the time..that too un intentionally!!
..
I am cool..but some times..people take advantage of my coolness..that I don't say anything to them!!
:)
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
5 Dec 07
hi dear
its good to have all kind of fun
and its nice that u have nerves to bear all this
but u r right, all things look good when they are in limits
and when some one tries to cross it, then u should leave ur coolness for some time
my dear people will start to take u as granted if u dont respond to them when they cross limits, its just a advise as we are far away and not in ur shoes,
and i am sure u r smart and intellegent enough to handle situations
take care
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@niranjans87 (1077)
• India
4 Dec 07
Hey dont feel so bad.Its good to hear that in these moments you laugh at yourself for being in such a situation.Thats good actually thats great.But I can understand that when this goes on for a very long time you kinda end up feeling bad.The thing is you've got to stand up for yourself and let these people know that it hurts you when they do it.If they are people who genuinely care about you then they will stop it immediately.otherwise you shouldnt give a damn about what such people say or do.Just Ignore them.
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
4 Dec 07
Yes I do the same I ignore them.
But I seek for a solution by which I can tell people that stop, this has crossed the line now... without hurting them!!
Thanks for your reponse niranjans87
:)
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@niranjans87 (1077)
• India
4 Dec 07
Well you have to be strong.I know its kinda hard to tell people right in the face to stop doing it without hurting them.Nut they are hurting you and its important that you let them know.There is never an easy way out of this.You have to let them know or else they will take you for granted.Let me assure you if they are real friends then they will respect you more for your actions.
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@thefuture (1749)
• Nigeria
7 Dec 07
Yes friend we often face such things most especially when we come close to people. It's ok to have a funny moment with friends eventhough some take it above what they should. Have a great day.
@stanzi2007 (602)
• United States
4 Dec 07
dear S...how are people making fun of you, you seem very well=spoken and nice...
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
4 Dec 07
nah its just a healthy fun..we have..but some times we don't know when it crosses the line.
Thankyou for your reponse.
:)
