being alone...good or bad?

@amulya (176)
India
October 29, 2006 1:24am CST
im the only child to my parents and i never felt bad about it..... i know some of u like having siblings.... please share your views with me y do u think so
8 people like this
112 responses
@edigital (2709)
• United States
29 Oct 06
Alone - When people become alone and nobody around him/her he/she spend time like this!
Alone in the family whether goor or bad depends on wealth and place in the society. If you born alone in a rich family it is not bad coz you will get lot of friends, relativies, wel-wishers around you for the wealth. If you born alone in a poor family you will get none around you expect your parent and other beloved relatives. Alone in the family is bring sometime sorrow when you will see elder one affectionating his or her younger one - being alone you will loose such affection even in some upset time you cannot overcome. May you can share your joy or sorrow with others, but sharing joy and sorrow within your brother and sisters has an extra heavenly feeling which you can taste. I am also one child in my family - I have many people to share my joy and grievances but none I found like as my own family member. So I think is it overall bad being alone in the family.
@sanjais84 (181)
• India
29 Oct 06
being alone is bad and very dangerous.it will lead you to think more and more about anything.how one can be happy being alone.its not good for yaou and your parents if u be alone.if you be alone then to whom do u share your problems.so my advice is dont be alone.make good friends and enjoy life
• India
29 Oct 06
and sorry if i hurt you
@amulya (176)
• India
29 Oct 06
being alone doesn't mean v dont have anyone.... there will b many things which v cant share with siblings but v can talk about anything with our close frnds... i dont think it will make any difference if v have good frnds
• India
29 Oct 06
if one cant share with their parents then there is some problem in between them whick makes you to be alone
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
29 Oct 06
i say being alone is bad, it will even lead some one to go mad or crazy. greetings. : )
• India
29 Oct 06
i agree with you
@amulya (176)
• India
29 Oct 06
being alone doesnt mean u'll sit alone and think something alll the time..... y will u turn crazy if u have frinds or if u know how to manage time on your own?
• India
23 Dec 06
Being alone is bad. Even u r only one daughter to ur parents. U may look for some one who care for u. who wants to share their feelings with u. It may be ur friend or some one else. But every one in this world should need a companion to share all the things
@linkpointe (1003)
• Philippines
3 Nov 06
Only YOU who could make your life HAPPY - Only YOU who could make your life HAPPY
Well with the way i read it in your post, you seem to be happy with your life being the only child in the family. Maybe because you were being pampered by your family that much. There's nothing wrong if you're the only child as long as you are happy about it.
@amulya (176)
• India
10 Nov 06
u r right... i never felt bad abt being alone.... i owe it all to my parents
• India
29 Oct 06
being alone is good
@amulya (176)
• India
29 Oct 06
ya... i too agree with u... v can get the complete love of our parents... right?
• France
19 Jan 07
Yes, am also only one. we r only one to have all the love n caring of our parents. No sharing....
• Luxembourg
19 Jun 07
well........being alone i wll be alone 24 hours in ma bed room which is ma den. with ma computer making it do work from morning till next day morning comes(i give it a rest of 5 hours daily heheheh.......) so i think i enjoy being alone with ma comp tht ma best frd which i cant afford to lose
• India
10 Mar 07
both are good both are bad m also confused but being alone is hard than being with partner http://www.bharatstudent.com/ctv/campustv1.php?fid=abjbbbjjbhib&vid=aaghcicciif&catid=2&page=1&sname=&rmav= www.quickmoney.com
• India
2 Feb 07
not good yaar( i think so)
@sanjeev9 (115)
• India
19 Jan 07
being alone is sometime good and some time bad like if we are alone we can think about our future and can decide what we have to do in future but sometimes when we are much more alone then negative thinking are created in our mind so at this time it is very bad so being with someone for more time and be alone for only very few hours a day
• India
19 Jan 07
U'll have to try it to experience it........ but u gotta be brave in this matter
• India
2 Feb 07
I dont think there is any problem or danger in being alone. I am the only son and i have never felt bad as you. Same time having a sibling is also a good thing. There could be certain pros and cons in both the ways. I always have enjoyed being alone. It gives you a lot of creativeness and innovative ideas since you spend a lot of time in useful thoughts.
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
9 Mar 07
I have two sisters and one brother. To me it was ok, I'm happy to have lived with all these people, we sometimes did not get on well together, sometimes fought, but we loved each others and so I'm happy that my parents gave me all these siblings. Unfortunately my son is an only child, he is happy not to have siblings, but I'm sure that if we should have another kid he would be very happy. Unfortunately here in Italy life is very expensive, and so, for the moment, we have decided not to have other children.
8 Mar 07
some times its good or some times its bad dipendes upon coditions
• Romania
12 Mar 07
that depends on you;)
• United States
24 Dec 06
I wouldn't want to be an only child. I only have a brother, and wish I had a few more. I'm glad I'll have someone there for me when my parents are no longer around. I hope to have 2-3 kids myself, so they won't be all alone. We used to torment each other growing up, but have gotten close now that we are adults.
• Pakistan
24 Dec 06
I always have loved to be alone coz its my nature that i dont like sittings with so much friends, though in my house we have a joint family and we are some 12 (2 brothers and 10 cousins) living together, but dont like to be more"SOCIAL",I ENJOY LONELINESS
@ikinta (1236)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 06
i think it is not about good or bad as well as there are good and bad side about anythings.i have three older sister and im the only boy.i feel like sometimes they got jealous because my parents spoil me too much.
@ricky1209 (1675)
• India
24 Dec 06
well if u r living with ur family and then u have to leave the family and then live alone is really bad... but if u dont care about ur family then live alone is the good option
• Philippines
25 Dec 06
It's never bad to be an only child. You can mix with other children and people, interact with them, and live a normal life. Sometimes it depends upon the child himself/herself. Thanks you don't take it to be a problem being an only child. May God bless you.
@tuishta (147)
• India
26 Dec 06
it suckss being da only kid sumtimes .. especially when yr parents dun spoil u at all.. n its lonely.. but u dun feel it except wen ur lonely