What are the tell signs that your partner is cheating?

By Nic
@academic2 (7009)
Uganda
December 10, 2007 6:03am CST
Is there a time you can come up boldly and tell your wife, hubby or fiancee that look here, you are cheating and go on to give 1,2 or even 3 reasons to support you acusation? What are the tell signs of a cheating partner?
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@focjop20 (233)
• Puerto Rico
18 Apr 08
You will now, whem dragging your feet on the floor during walking; that will indicate that the roots of your horns are growing, and you are becoming el Toro.
@academic2 (7009)
• Uganda
18 Apr 08
Do you mean the "third Leg" dragging on the floor focjob20? LOL!
@Adoniah (7515)
• United States
11 Dec 07
I knew my husband was cheating on me when his blood sugar went way out of control. He became a diabetic while we were married. First the doctor put him on the pills and then on insulin but still his sugar was high. Well I took over and taught him how to eat and told him if he wanted to live and keep his eyesight he would do what I said. He did and to the doctor's amazment we got his sugar completely under control and he was able to go off all medication. He controlled it with diet alone for two years and the all of a sudden it was out of control and he went back on insulin. I asked him who his new girlfriend was and he just looked at me. Then one day I saw him in a restaurant with his new girl friend. I knew.
@academic2 (7009)
• Uganda
11 Dec 07
Hi Adoniah, I guess yours was very easy to tell, and the sugar level rise and fall were very rekiable indicators.
@dloveli (4369)
• United States
10 Dec 07
There is never a time to accuse anyone for anything without proof. When you find out someone is doing something, you have to have proof visual, not he said she said. You can tell your partner is cheating because things change. They tend to be distant and offensive. Its almost impossible to maintain two lives no matter how hard you try.
@academic2 (7009)
• Uganda
11 Dec 07
Sometimes evidence is very crucial, it silences the cheater
• United States
10 Dec 07
The number 1 thing to look for is whether or not your partner has suddenly taken an extra amount of interest and made the effort to improve their personal appearance, but you know for sure that it is not for your sake because you are not getting much if any intimate attention. Put another way, a cheating partner will often suddenly start losing weight, exercising, wear nicer clothes, and things like that, but you know they are not doing it to please you because you are pretty much being ignored. I've seen this happen. As it is happening, it does not seem apparent, but in hindsight it is something obvious that causes you to ask yourself, "Why did I not see that?".
@academic2 (7009)
• Uganda
11 Dec 07
Very telling response-thanks rybd!