Very Distressing, Extremely Upseting

United States
December 15, 2007 3:08am CST
I hope, once again as I always say, that I don't make anyone upset but I just wanted to bring up the fact that I have found something quite distressing. On a previous discussion that I had started called Holiday Blues, I noticed that someone tagged that conversation with ha ha ha. I don't know who it was, I don't want to know who it was. I just want to point out the fact that it bothers me very much that anyone would assume that I would ever lie about the death of my child. I understand that there are people out there who would just for the sake of a pity trip but my Holiday Blues discussion was definitely not a pity trip. I posted it under the depression category because I was only looking for advice. If I had been looking to scam someone into pitying me I wouldn't have asked for advice. Please don't think that I am the type of person to ever lie about such a thing because people who lie about that make me sick. It's very disheartening when people would lie about such a thing. Anyway, point of the matter is, yes, my child did really die. August 12, 2006. Anyone who really wants to verify can go to www.morningsun.net and search Chloe Michelle Hoover. Actually, her name in the paper is just Chloe Hoover. Either way, doesn't matter. That is the last I will ever do to prove myself to anyone. I appreciate everyone on here and all the help that I have recieved. I just hope that whoever posted the ha ha ha tag under Holiday Blues reads this. I'm very sorry that you thought I made that up but I can assure you, I didn't. I wish I could say she was still here with me but unfortunately she isn't. Thanks guys, to everyone who has ever helped me out. I appreciate every one of you mylotters because with each post that you guys make it gives me something to do to keep me preoccupied. I hope you all have a wonderful holiday and hopefully I didn't make anyone mad. I just really had to get that off my chest.
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10 responses
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
17 Dec 07
Fallen YOU DO NOT NEED TO JUSITFY A DAMN THING!!! NOR DO YOU NEED TO PROVE ANYTHING TO ANYONE! and I am SO sorry the Mylot TROLLS have done this to you!! I lost my son Nov 30 1999 and it is the MOST horrible, painful and traumatizing thing I've ever had to go through....I'm so sorry some sick b@stard felt the need to tag you like that (and I noticed this one has been tagged cruelly as well)... I know how hard the holidays can be and believe me I feel your pain and sorrow...if you EVER want to vent or talk please feel free to PM me anytime and I'll do my best to help you get through....The first couple of yrs of "firsts without" are so difficult but believe me when I say it won't last for ever...I REALLY DOES get less and less painful as time goes on..its just getting to that stage of healing that is super rough.... {{{hugs to you}}}
• United States
17 Dec 07
Thank you so much and I'm so sorry to hear about your son. It has been painful trying to get to the part when you heal. I know I certainly haven't made it there yet. I'm truly sorry that any parent should experience such a loss. Thank you for the hug. I hope your Holidays are happy and wonderful ((Hugs)) to you as well.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
10 Oct 10
i feel i get refreshed after having my chocolates. And best remedy is Meditation, try breathing exercise, it will help you balance and handle depression.
@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 Dec 07
I'm very sorry that someone did that to you. Some people are just idiots!!! I'm sorry for your loss. It must be difficult for you at this time of the year, as well as during special days throughout the year. That person that made that comment should get into trouble for doing that. Did anyone report that creep? I hope so. never mind that moron!
@dfinster (3535)
• United States
18 Dec 07
I know this is easier said than done, but please try to not even give that jerk the satifaction of letting their comments bother you. Some people are completely insensitive and stupid. Why would they even think that? Sounds like they know quite a bit about scamming people and perhaps they think things like that because they've done it themselves.
@ozzie13 (177)
• Australia
16 Dec 07
that was obviously a very stupid and heartless thing to do, i feel sorry for you. I dont think people should be laughed at even if they didn't believe your story, they didn't have to reply, in that case. keep mylotting some mylotters are mean but there are mean people everywhere.
@skinnychick (6907)
• United States
16 Dec 07
That's really just rude and I can't believe someone could be that pathetic..
@Karinne (1223)
• Australia
16 Dec 07
Hi there fallenrain! Firstly my deepest sympathy for you and your family for your lost of your little girl! I don't know why someone would tag your post with something so disrespectful. Wishing you and your family a safe and happy Christmas.
• India
15 Dec 07
Hi fallenrain132321, It seems you possess a kind heart. Kind hearted people will quickly feel distress and upset. why should you feel bad for some one who has written badly about your posting.Think in more positive way like that the person replyed because he could not understand what you have posted or he had no kind heart to feel the feelings of other people and forget about that reply and come back to other's replies. You need not justify your posting to those kind of people. Please be cool and calm and note God will punish those kind of people at an appropriate time. I feel sorry for you for having received that type of posting.
@suehan1 (4355)
• Australia
15 Dec 07
i am sorry to hear that someone was so heartless to tag a conversation like that.please try and ignore them,i know its hard to ignore them,but there are so many wonderful mylotters out there ,who i know responded to you with love and well wishes and advice.there is always 1 idiot in the crowd,that has nothing better to do with themselves.so chin up and i hope you have a wonderful christmas
@Blue911 (49)
• China
15 Dec 07
Do not punish yourself by other people's mistakes