If you have a lots of problems,do you always get mad?

Philippines
December 17, 2007 6:27pm CST
everytime i have a lots of problems i always cant help my self to be come mad everytime i saw a bad things around me.Maybe because of the pressure from my problems,thants why i always talk to my self in front of the mirror and asked my self,'why im always like this'?even my self i cant understand sometimes.Thats why i always asked an advice to my sister, because i know she can give me a good advice and good words that i can try to do, so that my bad mood can lost.how about you what happen to you everytime when you have a lots of problems?do you get mad?or have a bad mood in the morning?
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11 responses
@moneyandgc (3438)
• United States
18 Dec 07
If there is a lot of stress in my life, yes I have the tendency to get angry or upset. I usually end up taking it out on my husband even if I don't mean to. I start getting mad about everything. I don't yell or anything, I just get quiet and grumpy. Usually talking it out with my husband makes it better for me. It works the same way for him.
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
really? but i know that you can control your self someday.and always remember keep your self in good condition so that you can make your self happy.even your family too.. reaNICAH
@eyewitness (1580)
• Netherlands
18 Dec 07
When i have lots of problems i also get mad it's just because we don't have control over the situation.That';s why we get mad.It happens to me when i have lots of stress and things go wrong or traffic is annoying.Also when i'm tired i get easily mad. Sometimes i try to stay calm and just listen to relaxing music and then everything is ok.
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah thats right because even me sometimes i cant control my self to get mad,but i know that we cant solve our problems if we don't make a good solution to this. have a nice day and keep in touch. reanicah
• China
18 Dec 07
No, I never get mad.I think we should be patient and it is very important.Problems can be solved sooner or later.
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
really? oh thats good for you.thanks for the nice response and have a nice day. reanicah
@fanji008 (784)
• China
18 Dec 07
Hi,there! When I have a lot of problems,I don't get mad,but maybe I'm not very patient. I know that even if I'm mad,I can't solve the problems well.So I try to calm down and analyse the situation to see what I can do to make things better.Sometimes I also ask some friends or experienced people for advice.I'd like to listen to more ideas and then think out the best way to solve the problem.Well,when there're many problems,maybe my mood is not at the best state.I always try to change that so that I can perform better:) Thanks for the discussion and have a nice day^_^
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah thats good!its because you always make your best to control your self,and always try to be patient.thanks for the response and have a nice day. reanicah
@lilaclady (28270)
• Australia
18 Dec 07
Yes i gat mad and I guess a little scared when somethings go wrong, because I get so far down somerimes I feel I will never get up again, bit I to talk to myself and try to think positve and think tomorrow is another day...
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah! always stay positive and be patient is much better than to get mad. reanicah
• India
18 Dec 07
me tooo i get mad at each and every thing when i have problems.more so when people give me weird advices.but i do meditate sometimes to to keep my calm.
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah thats good! if you have a problem you need to control your self your and always have a patience always remember have a control to your self is much better than to get mad. reanicah
• India
18 Dec 07
ofcourse always iam also thinking same way some times i got too mad abot the problem that time i dont know wht iam doing i will throgh out all my room broken item ..Now-a-days i came out for that situation i realise that is not a good way wht i did after that i have to suffer about that ..Now if i will get more angry or more sad regarding my problem i will do the prayer or i will do somewhere out..
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
really? oh my gosh!lol... but i know u can control your self someday, even you are angry or have a big problem. reanicah
• Pakistan
18 Dec 07
ohh yeah well i do sometimes get mad but then i realize if i get mad this is no way to finish my probz but would increase it,so i try to keep myself then calm
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah your right! we all know that problems can't go without making a good solution to this.problem is always there to calculate our patience and our self. reanicah
@nhelyma (181)
• Philippines
18 Dec 07
yeah.....most of the time i gt mad when i have a problem...that normal ....!!!but there are times that not because of problems y people got mad....maybe theres other thing....
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah your right!thanks for the response,and keep in touch. have a nice day. reanicah
@tryxiness (4549)
• Philippines
18 Dec 07
I try to compartmentalize stuff. I mean, i see to it that I won't affect other people whenever I have problems because it only means I am handling it poorly.
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah!and always remember if there is a problems keep on smiling -:}ok. reanicah
@ssh123 (31104)
• India
18 Dec 07
IF you think problem as a problem, it remains there and continues to give your trouble to your mind. If you think problem is nothing but next work that you have to ateend, then life becomes easier. I always get into the problems one after the other and I do not see that there is any problem. It has to be solved with confidence, intelligence and boldness. Life is full of problems - some small and some big. Face it. By just handling the problems you would have solved many problems. By keep it aside out of fear, you would have made a mountain out of mole.
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah you have a point there,and i agree to you,thanks for the response.have a nice day. reanicah