What should I do now?

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India
December 18, 2007 3:19am CST
I am in a relation with a boy for last 2 years, but he is not sure about his interest on me. What should I do now?
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11 responses
@nichole1983 (1187)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
youve been together for 2 years and hes not sure about you???? why would you date someone for that long if you dont know if you have any interest in them.. thats 2 years that you could of been with someone else.. i suggest you sit down and talk with him about all the feelings etc etc.. after seeing what he says follow your heart.. it will tell you what to do
• India
24 Jan 08
thanks
@nissmon (40)
• India
18 Dec 07
I hope that you are in love.for these last 2 years you couldnot understand him what's his motivation towards to you.if you told your interest to him and after that also he didn't respose,then he wil consider either you as a friend or he is a frroad.
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• India
18 Dec 07
thanks
@Estina54 (389)
• United States
1 Jan 08
It is unusual to know someone for 2 years and not to be able to define this relationship. It might be frienship or only admiration. I hope he's not some kind of a selfish player who wants to hols you back, to tie you up without any future together, just to have you under his thumb.
• Philippines
18 Dec 07
In the first place, why are you having relationship with him? and for 2 years? that's not a short span of time anymore. Hmm that's just my 2 cents. Anyway, communication is the key to working it out. Just talk about it seriously and sincerely. Good luck :)
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@diillu (5128)
18 Dec 07
It is alot better to work out the situation. If you can make situation work out for yourself then it is alot better. Let him realise that you are the one who loves him and you are the whom he loves. It is always better to work out the situaion then leave it cause if you at least try to work out the situation then in future you won't have any regret.
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@sang2k2 (1834)
• India
18 Dec 07
talk to him and if its not possible just donot force your self on him as its no point in carrying a one sided affair.
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
18 Dec 07
talk to him and then talk to him some more. Get to know how his mind works, ask him anything you want to know. Ask yourself, do you trust him? if so then you will believe him when he tells you how he feels
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@bluemars (952)
• Australia
18 Dec 07
That is not a nice feeling to leave with anyone and if they are unsure then it is not fair on you and they should not be in the relationship anymore. I mean why all of a sudden after so many years is he not sure. Perhaps he just has met someone else he wants to be with and that is the real reason behind it all. Or perhaps he wants to be single again and just fool around with whoever. You can never know if you don't ask the right questions. I don't think you should waste your time with someone who is not sure. Seriously life is too short and you because you could be with someone who is sure and who is going to take you seriously and not waste your time.
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@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
3 Apr 08
Im wondering how it last that long if he didnt show any interest in you? did he tell you about it? or that is just your own assessment in your relationship? if I were you, I will ask him whatever bothers me . this is a two way process..you have to open up since he cant just read your eyes or predict what you are thinking..i hope this help in a way!
• China
30 Mar 08
U are sexy and very beautiful. It is your advantance.
5 Mar 08
hi. well im goin to respond to your question. i had a relationship with a boy too, and it lasted for two and half years. i also i have a kid with this guy. i didnt know his intrest in me and when i got pregnant he didnt want nothing to do with me, now i sit here at home with my year old son with a new boy friend i wish i could of asked my babys dad if he loved me before we spent those two and a half years together. then maybe i wouldnt be in the position i am in now. but then again im happy. but thats life, right? you just never know. ask your boy what he thinks.