I tell him what happened and how it makes me feel and why he shouldnt do it again. I put it in terms that he can understand and relate to. But I always make sure that he knows no matter what I still love him.
i think we should not seem kids as kids,but we should make friend with them.
we share the attitude about the problem.listen the think of them.and not demand them as a administrator.or them will have big problem with us.