How to deal with the relationship with your kids?

China
December 18, 2007 7:51pm CST
When there is a problem which happens between you and you children,how to deal with it?
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3 responses
tiffiny
@tiffiny (872)
• United States
19 Dec 07
I tell him what happened and how it makes me feel and why he shouldnt do it again. I put it in terms that he can understand and relate to. But I always make sure that he knows no matter what I still love him.
wangshuang3121
@wangshuang3121 (125)
• China
2 Jan 08
erm,I agree with you.I think communication is the best way to deal with the problems.Whenever we should be calm down,do not shout to our kids,that will effect our kids.
remark
@remark (9)
• China
19 Dec 07
i think we should not seem kids as kids,but we should make friend with them. we share the attitude about the problem.listen the think of them.and not demand them as a administrator.or them will have big problem with us.
wangshuang3121
@wangshuang3121 (125)
• China
2 Jan 08
erm,yeah,I think so.But sometimes,parents just do not do as they think,because they are so angry,they would forget this.I hope I would not,I want to be a friend with my kid.
maggiemoon
@maggiemoon (487)
• China
19 Dec 07
Oh,he just is a kid which would be the best reason for his fault.Consider more for him and try to make communication after dinner or somethingelse.
wangshuang3121
@wangshuang3121 (125)
• China
2 Jan 08
good idea,the same way as I do,thank you for your respond!