how many times have you fallen for the wrong person?

Philippines
December 19, 2007 12:52am CST
I know and i believe we love for no definite reason or purpose coz if we do... we can't consider it love.. because love is boundless... we can't say that were inlove if we love a person by means of his wealth, kindness, attitude, way of living, apperance... none can make you feel inlove if you are mindless... love with no definite reason.. that is what i call love, not lust...
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@lyn2008 (446)
• China
19 Dec 07
Well,I've never fallen in lvoe yet.I think it is very hard to know that witch person is right to you.That is why many people get marry and soon they divorce.I think we should think it over for a very long time,it is one very important thing 0in our life.
• Philippines
27 Dec 07
yep. it really is risky... but you can't be happy if you don't take any risk? There is nothing sure in this life... Don't be afraid to get hurt co'z if you don't get hurt, you won't gonna know if you are in love...
@lyn2008 (446)
• China
28 Dec 07
Maybe you are right.But I think that the marriage is very important that we should think it over for a long time.Of course somebody can't fall in love with somebody when they first meet each other,haha,I don't have the experience of love,I've not found the girl who I love,maybe several years,I will.Marry Christmas,it is nice to discuss with you.
@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
18 Apr 08
My friends tell me that I wear my heart on my sleeves. So when I fall in love I usually do so with every essence of my being. Too bad it is often with the wrong person. I hope I'll finally fall for one of those guys who mean me well.
• United States
2 Feb 12
I hope so too, for your sake. Wouldn't want to continue that for say, 5 years or more? It would be ridiculous
• Philippines
5 Jan 08
I have fallen in love twice. Although one of those two relationship did not work out, I cannot say that I have fallen in love with the wrong person. Because looking back, that was what I wanted that time. We had happy moments and not-so-good memories but I do not regret it. But there are time that we need to let go in order for us and the other person to grow and find our own happiness, without each other. I am in love right now and I believe he is the right person.
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
yeah.. hope happiness will find you ^_^ peace out!
• Malaysia
1 Jan 08
Well, yes, I have felt that, and still feeling it, things kind of went sour a while ago.. and i don't know how to patch it back, it's really painful when the person you love does not love you back unconditionally like you do. the guy i've fallen in love with, does wanna try it out again, but i don't think i'm able to risk being hurt again and again.. part of me wants to so badly, but the other side just wants to be cautious. Yes, I do agree with you that love basically throws all reason and logic, but sometimes pain brings you back and you just get afraid of risking your heart again..
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
yup.. the thing is the PAIN... which makes us hate to love again... but it's just pain and if we will let this overtake our happiness, we'll gonna end up losers to this pain... If we don't feel the pain, we won't know that we've loved at all...
• United States
1 Jan 08
I've fallen in Love with the wrong people 3 times. I guess I got too close, I was really young, I was 14 years old. But when you're you think you know everything. Everyone tells you their experiences and who they loved and how it came out bad when they were younger, and I just wouldn't want to listen, UNTIL I got hurt. I didn't get hurt that bad, because I got over it I'd say about a week. I'd give it a week and I'd be done with my so-called mourning, like I lost someone. But when I turned 16 I could read guys like nothing. Guys and their stupid pick up lines! So now, I'm pretty close with this guy, I've been going out with him for three years off and on. We've been together since I was 15, We'd make a complete year in February. I think I'm in Love now and I'm so happy. I'm not 100% happy all the time, I don't think love is like that. We have a very good relationship that our decisions are mutual and we always try to help each other through our struggles. We were both drawn to each other when we first met.
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
yeah.. kip it up! don't let problems and trials take away your relationship... foundation is what keeps you guys stronger... through thick and thin you'll end up together... ^_^ peace out!
@iyamapa (259)
• Philippines
1 Jan 08
i did so many times and i dont understand it any longer!!!!!! i hate it really i do!!!
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
Don't give up... But if you're getting tired... stop lookin'... i know there's someone out there meant for you... it'll come and love you.. trust me ^_^ peace out.
30 Dec 07
i have felt in love twice in my life, each time i thought that the girl was ment just for me and i would not be able tolive without her but i was wrong,i remained upset for hardly 2 month but the life became as usuall again . i always thing that did it was a love or not
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
remember that love is not seen outside.. if your attracted to somebody co'z she's beautiful, then is just LUST.. try to figure it out man... ^_^ peace out!
@andrix (95)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 07
there is somebody for every body. Don't give up hope. :D
31 Dec 07
yes it is certainly true that there i someone for everyone but when you get repeatedly cheated by it you certainly lost the faith on love
• United States
29 Dec 07
Too many times to count...I believe I have fallen for the wrong guys in the past but not fallen in love with them...what I mean is that at the time when I was with them I truly believed that I love them but if I know what I know about love now I believe that it was nothing more than a crush or the need for companionship or lust not love...
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
teah.. maybe that's too many... when you say you're attracted to their appearance.. it's not love... its LUST
@besthope44 (12146)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.
@rexiemay (402)
• Philippines
19 Apr 08
i have fallen in love for so many times and lost all of them but i never thought that they are the wrong person. when we fall in love, it is destiny, an act of fate. there is no wrong person even though we may have been hurt because everything happens for a reason. if we were not hurt then we wouldnt know how to value the next person that comes our way. we wouldnt know what love and hurt means. we wouldnt know the importance of losing someone we love. in fact we wouldnt know what true love means. i guess it is all a matter of perspective.people stay in our lives and then leave because they have alrady serve their purpose in out lives even if it means hurtig us.
@chooseus (172)
• Indonesia
17 Apr 08
twice...:((
• Philippines
9 Apr 08
i am always falling in love with the wrong person... my mom told me thats not falling inlove but fooling in love. but i am praying for my right one now so i will not be fool inlove again... but sometimes when we are in hurry in love we always be fool inlove with the wrong person... True Love wait
@chiyosan (29388)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
i have had 2 serious relationships. and yes, i think it was all a mistake falling in love with them... :( im sorry but its just what i feel... they might get mad at me for saying that they are a mistake.. but i sure hope they will understand.
• Romania
5 Mar 08
I don't think you can really explain what you feel when you are in love, I think you just feel it. I wouldn't know, though, the times I thought I was in love I was really wrong.