people, feelings

@rosema (1145)
Philippines
December 19, 2007 11:38am CST
What would you do if people talked negatively about you?
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7 responses
@williamjisir (22903)
• China
8 Jul 08
Good afternoon, rosema. It is a good discussion to begin with. What will be my reaction if I am talked about in a negative way or manner? Well, if so, I will think about it carefully trying to get the answer why, otherwise, I will go to the one who talks negatively about me, so that I know in which respect I am supposed to make some improvement. There must be some reason behind it when talked about negatively. If it is really like what they say about me, I will reevaluate myself and manage to be a better person in my life and work though I cannot be a perfect person. Yet, I will just try to be one. Thanks for this discussion, rosema. Enjoy your life and work.
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@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
Hi myfriend, even though i dont know you in person, i know that you are a great person, yes i think that all we should do, talk to the person who talked about us negatively and asked them what's wrong with us. so that if they told us, we can change for a better. have a nice day my friend.
@mensab (4207)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
if those people who talk negatively about me are the people whom i don't know that much, i will not mind them and what they say. however, if those who are close and dear to me and whom i actually know talk negatively about me, i will definitely be hurt, especially if i hear things from the others and not from them. although there is such a thing as constructive criticism, i will take all those. i am OK with those kind of criticisms.
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
Just dont mind specially when you dont know that person much, maybe he/she just envy you, but when we are close to that person who talked negatively about uws, we will surely hurt. maybe he/she has a problem to us. better to talk to her/him if whats going on. ^__^
@jeb083079 (840)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
I try to be calm and cool. Then, I try to think it over, the negative thing that the person have been talking or yanking about. It's their own opinion, although, sometimes I get frustrated, I don't mind it now. I have learned to overcome it and be matured enough to accept the reality that you really can't please everybody.
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
if they talked about us negatively its their own opinion. its up to them. you know we cannot really please everybody. ^__^
@tiffiny (872)
• United States
19 Dec 07
When people talk badly abou me I just ignor them. Who really cares. But if it really bugs me then I freak out on them and usually make a spectical of myself.
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@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
You are right, just ignore it, specially when it is not true. who really cares? Thanks for giving time to response ^__^
@oliverdt (1959)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
I'll spank them like hell, hehehe just kiding... nevermind them just do what you think is right.
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@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
yeah, you're right baby, just do what you think is right
@bbsr13 (4198)
• India
19 Dec 07
Hello,rosema! i don't mind if you talk negatively about me,so far i have no ill feelings about you.soon after i think ill of you there will be quarrel between you and me.what is the use of that?instead,if i love you, you also reciprocate in the same manner.thank you.good day.
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
19 Dec 07
Maybe that's the best thing to do JUST DONT MIND if someone talked negatively about you, specially when it is not true that you are not talking about him/her. Thanks for the response...^___^ keep on smiling
@julianarw (1524)
• Netherlands
19 Dec 07
I think i will not comfortable with myself anymore and then i will think. Is true what they said about me?? Makes me think to correction about myself :P
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@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
Yes when someone talked negatively about us, we will not comfortable, we think and asked ourselves what we've done wrone? why are they talking about me? Is something wrong with me?