would you have an affair with a married man or woman??

Jamaica
August 14, 2006 3:34pm CST
I do not think I would have the heart to do that, do you?
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154 responses
@Happygal (53)
• New Zealand
22 Sep 06
I fell inlove with a married man, but stayed away even though he showed a lot of interest in me. It is very tempting when you are inlove. In fact I would love to see him again, but know it is wrong. I tell myself it is for the best, and I will met a single guy soon.
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• India
27 Nov 06
Hats off to you!!! That is a girl with a lot of understanding, self control, self respect and a disciplined girl. I really admire you.
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• India
27 Nov 06
gr 8 effort n self control cheers 4 u
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@xXmeganxX (4421)
25 Dec 06
i dont think i could ever do that because it's not fair on there partner etc, also if the partner did find out there would more than likely be trouble.
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@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
28 Nov 06
I could never put someone or myself through that...I wouldn't
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I said the same thing, but I did. What if you didn't know he was married? What if you didn't find out until nearly a year later and you were already madly in love with him by then?
• Germany
14 Aug 06
I couldn't mess with no one else husband. I love living!!!
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• India
22 Nov 06
not yet...
• India
22 Sep 06
oh common thts isnt a good discussion
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• India
8 Jan 07
it is a good discussion common ....it happens more than u think
@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
22 Nov 06
NO WAY, that is just worng, I am not a home wrecker
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
25 Nov 06
I would not want to be a home wrecker either.
• India
30 Dec 06
i dont like to this kind of stuff
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• United States
22 Sep 06
No, I dont like confusing and complicated relationship when it comes to men and women. I like it simple. It too much drama if you mess around with man/woman who are already married.
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@ladysun (635)
• United States
22 Nov 06
NO. I figure I am a full-time job all by myself and the man in my life will be busy enough keeping up with me without trying to share his attentions in other directions. Seriously...to do so is a serious lack of self-respect in my opinion, to take someone else's "leftovers" - not to mention very few cheaters are doing so with their spouse's knowledge...If he will cheat on her...it would be naive to think he wouldn't do the same to you in time.
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• Singapore
25 Nov 06
tried that and it's horrible! the feelings of breaking down some other people's family and having to share with another women. tried it and will never venture in that kinda relationship anymore!
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@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
30 Dec 06
No. It's terrible to destroy someone else's family.
@donrhody (108)
• Ghana
25 Nov 06
it can be possible
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• Philippines
30 Dec 06
i don't think so unless the person was really handsome and kind then he is worth the trouble
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• India
30 Dec 06
No i have no illegal affairs,i am in love with a girl.
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@asfi123 (951)
• India
30 Dec 06
couple - couple
no i will never break a women's house just for my happiness i can never fall in love with a married man
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
15 Aug 06
No sensible person would like to have it. It is totally dishonest act.
• India
6 Jan 07
Even though it happens out of love/affection, do not name it as bad. Always be honest to your life partner in all ways!
@memonayaz (138)
• India
27 Nov 06
Yes, Currently i have 4 extra marital affairs.
@Piratesware (2888)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 07
ya sem with .. I hate an affair for my self and from my self.
• Pakistan
16 Feb 07
hmmm ... the idea of havin an affair with a married woman turns me on tho i dont believe in that ... and secondly ... u need a BIG WICKED heart to do that ...
@zipzipzop (419)
• China
16 Feb 07
I don't think it is a good thing.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
28 Mar 13
I don't think there is a possibility for me to have an affair with a married woman. First of all, I have no interest with married or coupled female. I don't feel like destroying others relationship because I don't want mine to be destroyed too. If possible I don't want any flies disturbing us being together. That is why I won't become one. Secondly, involving with a married couple, will also involve the innocent people in it. Perhaps they have children, these children would have incomplete family if I take away their mother. I consider it a big sin which I will never ever do. Frankly speaking, my mother was taken away by another guy too, so I know just how a broken family is. There are just too many considerations and negative outcomes if one have an affair with a married person. Furthermore, you cannot guarantee the relationship will last. And if you think about it, if the person can be have an affair with you while he or she is married, the person can do the same to you too after the two of you are married.