Cleavages... to stare or not to stare?
December 23, 2007 9:38pm CST
I was writing something about plunging necklines when I was reminded of an episode of Jerry Seinfields. In that episode, George was slapped and chastised by his girlfriend for staring at the cleavage of another woman who walked by. George was griping to Jerry about how it is not his fault that he was staring when she wore such a low cut dress. So Jerry says, "Cleavages are like the sun! You take a glimpse of it, get an idea of what it is and YOU LOOK AWAY!" Ha ha ha... I was laughing away when he said that. With his big eyes and the gestures he was making, it was hilarious! So comes the question, when you come face to face with a woman exposing her cleavage, do you stop, stare and gawk? Or do you, like Jerry says, just glimpse and move on?
26 Dec 07
It's OK to take a glance. There's really no need to Stare. I always feel it's rude to stare. Since the girl is dressed that way, I am sure she does not mind being look at so it's OK to take a look but please make sure your wife is not aware. LOL I have friends who enjoy wearing such low cut clothes and yet they complain about being looked at. I always tell them, if you dare to flaunt it then don't complain about people looking at it. You can't expect people to blindfold themselves right? LOL I've seen very short girls wearing such clothes. You can see their cleavage clearly from any angle (unless you are shorter than them) Sometimes, it's not that you want to look at them.
24 Dec 07
Hello there... To answer your queation: Guys normally look at cleavage every now and then cuz maybe perhaps it attracks us. Its kinda magnetize us to its gaze. But to be frank. It is still best to do the right thing: once look at a second then look away immediately. Still, it is very tempting.
24 Dec 07
Well, my mama mama used to teach me that staring is rude. But if a girl were to really dress up for the purpose of letting other admire her beauty, I guess it is alright to take a second glimpse. Glimpse being the key word here. Cos no matter what, it is rude to stare. I have seen men who stare at women when walking along the road while shopping. Most are staring to the point of leering. That no longer becomes a complimentary look. It is down right disgusting!
28 Jul 08
I am sure if a guy gives a second look it is ok. Cos you know that you are attractive enough to warrant that second look. And if feels good that people are paying compliments to you that way. Especially if the second look is from another woman, rite? I am sure if the looks becomes a stare or a leer, it would be just plain nasty. Good that you have confidence in yourself to carry yourself well. Thanks for sharing that Katinka.
12 Feb 08
Well, to stare or not to stare is one's individual choice. I strongly believe it is a stinct, imagine a handsome guy walking across a woman, does'nt she gaze at him or throw a look at him????? So is the situation of stare or not to stare. Sadanand.
25 Jul 08
I am sure if she were to walk by you, your first instinct is to take a second look. There after, the question will be, will you continue to look at her? Stare at her ample boobs that she is dangling in front of you? Or would you have looked away? Walk to another part of the cabin so as not to feel uncomfortable in her presence?
24 Dec 07
Not all women share your view. This is evident in the kinda dressing they are in when you are outside. Be it on the commute in the train or the bus. Or along the street where you do your regular shopping. Some of these women even dress up super low necklines to go to the market in the neighborhood stores. I also wonder what their agenda are. Thanks for sharing WiteNgtOwl.