Are you tired of the same all same all?

@bluemars (952)
Australia
December 27, 2007 6:24pm CST
I mean sometimes I feel like that now and then when I feel like I need something different in my life. I got quite depressed the other day about it and couldn't stop crying because I felt like there was something missing in my life and that I needed something even though I did not know what that was exactly. Do you ever get tired of the same all? I mean you just want to experience something else that separates you from the everyday routine of life? I am tired of it but get a bit depressed too because I feel so restricted and like I can not do anything about it, you ever feel like that?
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@zhwbeast (326)
• China
29 Dec 07
No, I have not tired at all. I am in the department of foreigh trade and have to meet many strangers in the different situation.Both them give me the stress of challenge and when I across it well,the satisfition will fullfil my soul and build up my confidence. Also,speakinn english and get alone with the customers from different customary enlarge my knowledge. So,I am so interest in the job.
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@bluemars (952)
• Australia
29 Dec 07
I think it is good when you are able to challenge yourself in a way and be able to go from that.
• Romania
28 Dec 07
Yes I always get bored of the same old same....I just wish I could escape for once from my home...I would like to go in the mountains....to chill a lil' bit Tnk god there is music. It' helps my get over this...
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@bluemars (952)
• Australia
29 Dec 07
Music can help you escape temporarily in a way and it helps you to get over some things for that moment but yeah it would be nice to just leave certain things behind and not feel this inner pain that can be so strong at times.
@cici0081 (27)
• China
28 Dec 07
Sometimes I have the same feeling,I feel like doing more sth but haven't power to do that,at that time I was aways complain everything,so I aways yammer to my friends,but it is great after I do that,because your friends will enlighten you ,tell you how to do,it is nothing,ervryone has the same problem,so,member,I hope you can talk to your best friends what you are trouble,it is really help
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@bluemars (952)
• Australia
29 Dec 07
Yeah that is why I do come here because I do get some outlet and also be able to talk to others about similar experiences and how they deal with it it really does help in that sense even though sometimes only time helps you to deal with things better.
• United States
28 Dec 07
Well, I tend to be the opposite. Change actually scares me to an extent and I find comfort in the "same all, same all." However, change is often times necessary. I actually commend you for being able to go through those necessary changes and, in fact, enjoy them. That will make a lot of things easier for you in the end. :)
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@bluemars (952)
• Australia
29 Dec 07
I hope things get better, sometimes I just feel so alone and even when I am around company I just don't know and I have never felt like this before and I wonder sometimes about it. I hope you are right and that things do get better and that I am able to get past it.
• United States
28 Dec 07
Well, I tend to be the opposite. Change tends to scare me and I find comfort in the "same all, same all." That doesn't mean that sometimes, however, change is necessary. I actually commend you for preferring that change, as it makes a lot of changes life throws at you easier to go through (in fact, something that you would enjoy).
@bluemars (952)
• Australia
29 Dec 07
I can see your point. Yeah I think it is good for the soul in a way and it helps you to get out of the same thing now and then to do something that is so different and well making you feel more alive. I do not see myself in one area and think that I do have many facets that are becoming of me or are already in me.
• New Zealand
28 Dec 07
Kia ora its common knowledge that we are living in times hard to deal with. When people feel like how you described - a remedy hard to come by these days is LOVE. Love from people- heals. Speaking blessings to each other and acting in love towards one another. Financial pressures, worldy pressures all just dont help. Going thru rough times are test in life or storms of life that you try to survive or come thru. The net is a great way to talk to people and share your frustrations aye!
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@bluemars (952)
• Australia
29 Dec 07
Yes that is true and thank you for your sharing here with me. I do appreciate it and I agree with you it is one outlet that does feel like healing in a way to help get some of the inner pains out. It is not easy to be stuck in a place like that they you feel constrained in and you want to escape to breathe.
@Jolsn4 (19)
• United States
28 Dec 07
Hi Bluemars, I think everyone feels this way some time. Life can kind of box us in sometimes when we do the small thing day after day. I believe that there is always something missing in everyones life until they have achieved all of their goals--but really who can do that? Don't feel down or alone! The best thing I can do when life kind of puts me in prison is to just get away. I get in my car and drive far away. Sometimes over night, sometimes only just a couple hours. I suggest going somewhere that has a beautiful view or is just somewhere you feel really relaxed. It should restore some hope in your life. Everyone just needs to get away sometimes. Or you could take on a new hobby. This will help you get your mind off whatever is troubling you and hopefully fill the gaps you feel. Create scrapbooks, write a book, send notes to friends, start tutoring. Just something that gives your life a new meaning. I wish you luck!
@bluemars (952)
• Australia
28 Dec 07
Thank you so much for the kind words I know sometimes I do just need to kick myself out of it but there are times when I just am not able to do that at all. I do find it hard at times when there are so many other aspects affecting my life and the way things are going too. I would love to escape it but am not able to do that at the moment and am trying to take pleasure in simple things to help me. I am trying to have some hope and some keep my spirits high, just is still hard sometimes.