What do you think if your bf is not romantic ?

China
December 27, 2007 9:45pm CST
I hope my bf will be more romantic , not just care about his job , as well as care about me !
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• Nigeria
28 Dec 07
Lover sometimes run after their jobs to get paid just to meet up with their daily needs not that they are not true lover. Understanding matters, so let your lover know that he is not romantic and paying less attention to your love and by so doing, he will know that he has been hurting your feelings. Talking over problems with each other help to keep love
@theprogamer (10539)
• United States
28 Dec 07
I can be romantic and have been romantic (there's even been a couple of discussions and responses that supposedly point it out). What gets me is either the entitlement, or way worse than that...having your efforts taken lightly (unappricated).-_- There should be some sort of balance and definitely some consideration of the other in a relationship. Take each other out to dinner once in awhile. Spend time walking at a park or sitting and enjoying each other's company. Give a few flowers to one another(I'd say be creative here). Both people in the relationship should be trying to win the heart of their love with acts like this as well as spending time and dealing with everything that comes in the relationship (both the good and the bad). It should not be all put on one individual in the relationship, it cannot work like that.
• United States
28 Dec 07
Well for me I have never been with a man who was romantic so I don't think Im missing out on much when it comes to that LOL. But I like every once in awhile get a flower or something just small and insignificant. I wish I was with someone who was a little more romantic with me.