Friends Betrayal

@neelygal (1022)
Bahamas
January 1, 2008 9:38am CST
What do you do when you suspect your best friend is sleeping with your husband?
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10 responses
• United States
2 Jan 08
I would ask my husband about it after I viewed their behavior first. Be careful on how you word this because it could cause you a lot of heart ache if they are not sleeping together. Some people are just friendly and they tend to seem like they are getting too close. If it bothers you, talk to your husband about it first and then to your friend. I would defiantly say something to your husband though so that he understands the way you feel and why you feel this way. If they are not sleeping together, then he will probably stop being so friendly with her.
• United States
2 Jan 08
Great advice! If you are suspicious you should always talk with your husband first and ask him directly.
@Sissygrl (10915)
• Canada
2 Jan 08
You set up a video camera, and try to catch them in the act as well as get proof, THEN YOU WALK IN ON THEM, CATCH THEM, and KILL THEM BOTH :) hehe.or.. you could catch them and just be glad that you know what horrible people they both are and move on with your life without them. That way you dont go to jail :)
@sergedan (768)
• Romania
2 Jan 08
I'd spend as much time with my husband as possible,that way he can't sleep with anyone other than me.Either that ,or hire a private-eye and some good lawyers.
@vera5d (4006)
• United States
2 Jan 08
first you get proof...then you give either of them 1 chance and 1 chance only to tell the truth...then you move on, and hopefully get a nice alimony settlement out of it...
@academic2 (7010)
• Uganda
1 Jan 08
I try my best to get them red handed, in the act then I tell her piece of my mind because if you dont nab her, she will do what most sinners do, deny what she knows for a fact they hav been doing, so catch them first and then deal with them one by one, remember it takes two to tangle, so you need to deal with your husband too-
@academic2 (7010)
• Uganda
1 Jan 08
I try my best to get them red handed, in the act then I tell her piece of my mind because if you dont nab her, she will do what most sinners do, deny what they know for a fact they are doing, so catch them fast and then deal with them one by one, remember it takes two to tangle, so need to deal with your husband too-
1 Jan 08
I would get out of that relationship now if I was you!!!! you need to trust your man, you don't so why are you with him? Girl you must be in a place where you know he wouldn't do that so go find another man and kick both to the curb. If your are wrong very wrong you need to sort out why you have insecurities.
@adnanezzi (243)
• India
1 Jan 08
make sure before u do anything. friendship is based on trust and not on suspcion
@men82in (1270)
• India
1 Jan 08
As I am a man, I do not know how a woman would feel when she suspects or see her best friend is sleeping with her husband. From thinking from the other side, I would definitely make a strong discussion to apply for a divorce. To be more frank, I would even give a slap to both of them and leave them and will pray to GOD that I should never meet them anymore in my LIFE.
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
1 Jan 08
if it was a serious suspision (rather than insecure paranoia) I would keep a close eye on them and if I found more solid clues etc that they were I'd call them out on it!