jealousy

@ivzgrace (101)
Philippines
January 2, 2008 9:25am CST
is jealous a sign of love or not?
12 responses
@aries_0325 (3062)
• Philippines
2 Jan 08
For me, jealousy is not a sign of love. It is a sign of selfishness. If you love someone, give all your trust and I know that man love you more than you expected.
@ivzgrace (101)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
what if your love is with his his/her ex-girlfriend/ex-boyfriend? don't you felt jealous?
@babymar (361)
• Philippines
26 Jan 08
i don't think jealousy is a sign of love....coz if you really love someone, you should trust him...but it's hard to trust someone that's why jealousy occurs.
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
26 Jan 08
hi, i think is not love. all i know jealous come from evil so you and your partner not trusting each other and sometimes apart.
@bmoliv (184)
• United States
9 Jan 08
I think it CAN be a sign of love... I think a little jealousy is natural, but the more you have the more of a problem it can become.
@cici0081 (27)
• China
9 Jan 08
haha,member,both us are females
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
Jealousy has it certain level. I may say based from my own experienced that I am jealous sometimes with my husband. i think all of those who love have experienced jealousy sometimes. It is just within you to say it or just keep it to you. Sometimes you have tell it so you partner will know your feelings because maybe he might have something wrong he does. And sometimes it is best to just keep it because it might be a useless jealousy. Jealousy can be good sometimes and sometimes it is worst and can ruined ones relationship. It is just like any other feelings, the point is learn how to control it and every outcome of your feelings.
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
It can be of too many definitions, too much of it means that it is already being selfish and some spices up a relationship. It's not good to feel jealous of almost everything, that it already consumes the person sanity and eats their minds. I would prefer not to be jealous of anything else, besides, nothing beats a good conversation and sincerity with the one you live..
• United States
2 Jan 08
I dont think jealousy is a sign of love at all cuz if someone gets to jealouse that could lead other things I think it is the beginning of a bad relationship. thats just my opinion
@dania_elm (422)
• United States
2 Jan 08
no it is not jealousy stems from obsession and thats just sick my spouse and i love eachother very much and have no jealous feelings at all i am fine with him hanging with his female friends and he has no problem with my male friends
2 Jan 08
Jealousy can be good and bad in a relationship.To be jealous a little is healthy ; it lets us know that a person does have feelings for us. Yet when it is taken over board ; it can be dangerous and unhealthy.That is when people start showing up where you are unannounced and displaying strange behavior.Everyone of us has it in us to be jealous and probably have been at some point in our lives.It's part of our emotions that have to be controlled so we don't miss up a good thing if we have it.
2 Jan 08
There can often be jealousy without love. It's usually just a sign of a lack of self-worth and trust.
@max1950 (2313)
• United States
2 Jan 08
i think jealousy is a sign of low self esteem