Long distance can end up the relatonship ?

China
January 3, 2008 12:48am CST
One of my friend just because this reason to end up her relationship with her lover !
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7 responses
@musicman6 (2368)
• United States
4 Jan 08
Well, I think that everyone thinks different, I personally think that a long distance relationship is not good for the relationship! I know there must be some relationships that could survive, but I think they are rare!
@fianne (1059)
• United States
3 Jan 08
well, distance is a trial for the relationship i believe. it can either make your relationship stronger or ruin the relationship. it makes stronger the relationship if there is communication between you and you express yourself with so much love and care eventhough he is far between the distance you two have. it can ruin or destroy the relationship if you just let your relationship just be at its place, with the distance and all, no communications, no feelings, then, it's a goodbye in the end. plus, temptation will come in if there's no communication, and i know, like my experience before withmy boyfriend, it is very hard to ay no.
• United States
3 Jan 08
It's really got more to do with the people involved than the situation, really. I have had one long-distance relationship in the past and we did end up breaking up, but the distance was hardly a factor. It was always hard work, but it was never too much for me. For some people, it can make the bond and the relationship stronger. One of my good friends is currently in one, and I can't begin to describe the happiness he feels when she is back in town to be with him, even if only for one night. If two people are strong enough, they can get through whatever obstacles face them. Period.
@raijin (10380)
• Philippines
3 Jan 08
I think it's the faith and dedication that are put to test here, if both parties don't believe and can't seem to hang on to that love they have then I guess it'll surely end up zero. But if both are dedicated and knows each other both, even with or without constant communication, then I'm sure that things may end up fairly for both. Having a relationship, long distance or not are meant to end up with even just a simple mistake. The better you know your partner, the stronger your relationship will go through..
@dlsheng (136)
• China
3 Jan 08
sometimes, long distance can end up the relationship.sometimes it's NO. it's depend the themselves. my wife lived in another city.but it's no any problems about our love. it need trust,patience,understanding ect.
@nkhanna (926)
• India
3 Jan 08
well i really dont think that long distance can end up ones relation.since love is unconditional.i am sure the distance might be because of studies or some job related issues.and for this one should ont break the relation,since whatever the other one is doing is just for thier future benefit.i really dont think that there would be any person in tihs world who would love to be apart from their loved ones.there are many friends of mine who are into a realtion even though their loved ones are abroad for their studies.and they all are thinking ot settle down now with a good life.
@nesher (237)
• United States
3 Jan 08
There is opinion, that long distance can make the relationship stronger. However, it depends on how deep the feeling were before separation. I would say, that the separation will multiple the seed that was already planted: if it was deep, it might grow stronger, if it was shallow, it might end it up. If the long distance is for very long, it might cause deteriation even strong relationship. People feel close, if they have much to share. On distance, amount shared memories might be covered by the new friends, new impressions, and new experiences.