love starts after marriage? is it true.

Pakistan
January 4, 2008 12:48am CST
i need genuine comments, if anyone can help me. regards.
8 responses
• India
4 Jan 08
Hi friend, What u said is correct to some extent.After marriage,both stay in one house,slowly the attraction starts,if the chemistry is good than it takes only 2-3 months,if their chemistry is average it may took 1 year for loving each other.If the chemistry is weak one has to comprises.It all depends upon the understanding each other.Depending upon the situation their would act.If they are doing that than love automatically starts on each other. have a nice day
• Pakistan
4 Jan 08
thanks
• India
4 Jan 08
Its ok friend
@bianx21 (339)
• Philippines
4 Jan 08
If it's true love,then love doesn't start in marriage. Why would you marry someone whom you do not love,right? But,then again,there is what we call a fixed marriage and in that marriage,there is no love.
• Pakistan
4 Jan 08
thanks, the 1 july gal. i know cnacerians are lovely and sensitive, invariably...
• Philippines
4 Jan 08
It is true if it occurs in arrange marriages.If in a christian marriages, it should happen when tweo people fell in love and realize they cant live w/o each other
• Pakistan
4 Jan 08
thank u. i needed it
@carolbee (16241)
• United States
4 Jan 08
I believe love starts before mariage. I wouldn't marry someone who I did not love prior to our wedding day. I also wouldn't have children with a man who I didn't love. I can see, however, pre-arranged marriages are different when it comes to like first and then love in many cases.
@aries_0325 (3062)
• Philippines
4 Jan 08
Sometimes, but definitely I will not agree with it. How you come to start a marriage without a love. How can you start a family and how can start a good relationship if you don't love the person you marry. I think and for my own opinion, it is better to marry a person you love rather than marry him or her and start loving him or her.
• United States
4 Jan 08
It happen for someone I know. She was in like with her husband hehe and her husband was in love with her and after they got married she grew to love him so yes love can start after marriage...or should I say true hehe...
@nkhanna (925)
• India
4 Jan 08
well its really depends.for a love marriage love starts before marriage since obth of them know each other and have gone through wedding since they both wanted it whole heartedly.they want ot be together.on the other hand for arrange marriage,its two individual who are being married might be because of theri parents pressure or just because they have ot get married.they hardly know each other.for them definately love starts after their marriage.they try to know each other and try to be lovers after marriage.however many a times people start taking thier partners taken for granted after a period of time which really is very wrong,since this relation is very sensitive and needs to be handled with much care and love.
4 Jan 08
hey see if its a love marraige, then true love start only after there long relationship..... if its a arrange marriage then the love starts after engagement it gets deeper after marriage..