Marriage is the beginning or the end???

Australia
January 5, 2008 9:56am CST
Hello Mylotter First time I made a relationship with my boyfriend, I think that I have to married with him. So for me the end of our relationship is marriage. And now I almost finish what I've started. I will married with him after 5 years relationship with him. But now I just thinking about that. My parent said that married is not the end of my story, but a new story will be begin. A new life, living together with a person that I choose and try to know him more that yesterday. Try to love and take care him for the rest of my life. Love him in all condition. For me, marriage is the end and the beginning. How about you? Thank you for respond and God bless you *angel www.beautycosmetictips.com
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5 responses
• United States
5 Jan 08
I definitely think that it' not the true beginning, and I don't think it's the end either. I think it's a "new beginning" or a "renewal" of one's relationship. Marriage definitely solidifies a lot of things.
• Australia
6 Jan 08
Hello cafountain I really agree with you about that. Married is very complex. Thank you
• United States
7 Jan 08
Marriage isn't really that complicated.
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• Hong Kong
9 Jan 08
...it's both i may say, beginning for a new chapter of your life and goodbyes for being single..matter most is how you stand on choices u'll make..
• United States
5 Jan 08
Marriage is neither a beginning or an end. It's just another part of life and your relationship. It should have no effect on how your relationship is conducted, you should already be committed.
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• Australia
7 Jan 08
Hello gloomcookielex Thank you for your respond. You are so right that I should be committed from the first time. God bless you
@bellaofchaos (11550)
• United States
7 Jan 08
Marriage is neither end or begining of the commitment you have already it just some extra paperwork and the next step in the relationship that you were going to take if you were commited in the first place very few things should change. There are things that do like how you do taxes and small things but the important is that there is still the same amount of love and commitment that there was before the marraige good luck to you and have a nice.day.
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@OConnell87 (1046)
8 Jan 08
In a relationship your just having fun with your partner, getting to know them, their family, doing things together that you both enjoy, but then marriage is the start of a new relationship, in that you are telling each other your taking your relationship to the next level, you've had your fun now we're going to commit to one another to always be there and etc etc according to the vows, your saying yep i want to spend the rest of my life with you, i dont want any other relationships
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
8 Jan 08
somehow I can't see it as beginning or the end. It seems to be a continuation, like the next step. if both of you view the next step is a new phase of your life together, then maybe that's why you view it as beginning.