cry or rant?

@wynna1 (1291)
January 6, 2008 1:25pm CST
When you are angry what do you usually do, do you prefer to cry out loud or maybe just take the rant. As for myself i prefer to cry first and makes me feel better then after that i can do the rant, just to pour everything out from your system.
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• United States
6 Jan 08
I do neither. I do some of my best thinking when I am angry.I don't cry because I would be too angry to cry. And I don't rant because I assume people would listen to me. I believe action speaks louder than words, so I sit and plan the perfect response to whatever happened.In most cases it means that I Never acknowledge the person ever again. Or I just cut ties with them. Or the best thing is to do the complete opposite than what was expected. Whatever causes the best revenge, I 'll do but first I have to think about it first.
@wynna1 (1291)
6 Jan 08
Thats the best thing to do really, to cut ties with them, if the hurting is really that bad, better not to acknowledge them and you could be better off without that certain person in your life.
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• United States
6 Jan 08
i dont think that is neccesarily the best solution the people u love the most have the ability to hurt u the most so y wuld u cut them out of ur life just because the made u angry? i honestly believe its worth talking about and trying to forgive but never forget because if it becomes a habbit u should cut them out
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• United States
6 Jan 08
If whatever they did hurt me enough for me to be livid,that is a sign that they don't respect my feelings So instead of doing something criminal to them back, it is better to cut them out of my life. If it is just a argument, I can see trying to talk it out. But if you hurt me deeply, there isn't Anything you can do or say that will make me forgive or forget.
@dania_elm (422)
• United States
6 Jan 08
when i get angry like that (not very often) i get real quiet and and go shopping and think about everything i want to say to that person and then icall them and we get together and i explain to them i did not appreciate what they said/did and we try to talk it our and then we cry i do that everytime with the exception of one time the girl was making fun of my sick child and i just went compledetly crazy on her i yelled and cusses and threw stuff and i dont even remember doing it i got called into the office at work where it happened and the plant manager said "im not saying u cant act like that i would of to but i am saying u cant behave like that at work" and then the other girl got fired
@wynna1 (1291)
6 Jan 08
Thats right i think to divert the anger into something else.
• United States
7 Jan 08
yes but it is very important not to ignore it u still have to deal with the issue if not ull get wrinkles lol
@hailie17 (448)
6 Jan 08
I always cry when i'm really angry. It gets quite frustrating actually as sometimes i just want to yell but i cannot do it without crying first!
@wynna1 (1291)
6 Jan 08
Yeah, i know how you feel, i really tend to cry a lot when i'm angry because its just to hard for me to express what i really really want to say, but after crying thats when i start saying things, a bit shaky though...
@shesaid (71)
• United States
6 Jan 08
I rarely get angry. So when I do. I usually visualize something over the top. Like for example i was flying to L.A. and a flight attendant kept hitting my shoulder. So I visualized me running through the isles and creating a scene. Hahahaha. I do cry alot though. just never when im angry
@wynna1 (1291)
6 Jan 08
Visualization, maybe i could try that one day...hehe
@crystal8577 (1470)
• United States
6 Jan 08
It depends on what or who I am mad at. I usually will rant up a storm. If I cry over it than things are really going to get ugly. That means my feelings have been hurt & I am really going to be angry.
@wynna1 (1291)
6 Jan 08
This shows how every individual deal with the situations.
@kellys3ps (3731)
• United States
6 Jan 08
It really depends on the situation. Sometimes I want to rant and rave when I am angry, but if the situation seems hopeless or as if there is nothing I can do to fix it or change things, I tend to cry.
@wynna1 (1291)
6 Jan 08
yeah, when frustration kicks in then thats what happens next really.
• United States
6 Jan 08
I prefer to rant. I don't cry often, let alone when I'm angry unless I'm already stressed and someone just comes along and just completely makes things absolutely crazy. So, I just rant and rave and be done with it.