arranged marriage or love marriage ? which do u prefer

@kasyap (51)
India
January 7, 2008 4:40am CST
hey friends ..those who r already married and those who r abt to marry and those who have plans to marry in future and those who think that marriage is a total waste can post their valuable comments
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5 responses
@Pose123 (21667)
• Canada
17 Jan 08
Hi kasyap, I know that arranged marriages have been around much longer. Falling in love and getting married is a fairly new concept. I'm sure that both ways are good and people in arranged marriages learn to love each other and have very happy lives together. On the other hand, love marriages are certainly the norm in the western world, and I'm sure it's what most would want. Blessings.
@babymar (361)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
for me, it's love marriage....coz how can you marry a person you don't love? how can you spend the rest of your life with him when you doesn't feel anything about him.....before you get married, be sure you love that person so that you will not regret when you married him
@diillu (5128)
7 Jan 08
Well, for me marriage isn't a total waste. It is a devine union of a man and woman who are in love. Love is like a soul to the marriage so a marriage can only be succesful if there's love between the partner. The love can help them and bind them together forever but if there's no love then marriage would seem like a bondage so it would break sooner or later.
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
Of course I'd go for love marriage. I would NEVER ever go for arranged marriage! In arranged marriage you don't even really get the chance to know the person well...
@nichole1983 (1187)
• Canada
7 Jan 08
Love marriage all the way. Why would I go for an arranged marriage. I would never marry someone I don't know and I don't love. There is no point to it. I perfer the normal way that has been around for so many years of falling in love with someone and marrying them.