Do not worry

By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48715)
United Kingdom
January 7, 2008 4:53am CST
If you do not see me on all of a sudden please do not worry I am expecting my Internet to be cut as I can not afford to pay it right now due to helping my Children out for the last couple of Months They have been and still are going through a bad time which I hope will now settle as of this week So I am behind on my Bills at the moment But my Kids come first and always will Yes I will be lost and upset without my Friends on here and without the Internet but I will have to put up with it So please no one worry if of all a sudden I disappear for a while as I do not know when I will be cut of Love you all
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26 responses
@OURDEW (4812)
• United States
7 Jan 08
Thanks for letting us know gabs, I'm sorry you are going through bad times. I totally agree, our children come first. I hope you run into some good luck, you deserve all the best.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Thank you Ourdew and yes the Kids come first and always will Hugs to you
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@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
7 Jan 08
darn it just when ya get back ya mioght have to leave! thats a bad scene how all works out ok and you get back on feet soon hugs wish I could help but ya know what I ahve here. hugs and blessings
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
I know to well what you are going through I just wanted to warn People of in case I loose it thats all Everyone is in the same boat my dear Friend and it was my choice to help the Kids and I knew the possible consequences and you know me I will always put them first
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@Lakota12 (42684)
• United States
8 Jan 08
yup I know you and just wanted to let you know how much I miss you when you arent here. Lets hope it dont come to that hhugs hugs hugs
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@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
7 Jan 08
Awwww gabs I do understand. And hopefully things will be worked out. I wish I could help you out because I would. I know my cable bill is due next week and right now we dont have it.LOL Thanks for letting us know and I hope it wont be for too long. Or maybe not at all. Love you and hugs. Hang in there!
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Terry Sweet I have till next week to sort it so I am still hoping for a miracle A certain Person does not know yet and I do not intend to tell him as it is not fair that he pays my Bills and you know who I mean Mind you he will find out when he tries to get me on MSN lol
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@TerryZ (22083)
• United States
7 Jan 08
I know who you mean. Listen sometimes miracles do come true! Right? Well I cant wait to talk to you. Please try not to worry I know its really hard because your a great mom! Love you and big hugs!
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• Canada
7 Jan 08
Oh, gabs, I will miss you so much! I just got back from the cataract assessment and my pupils are dilated and my sight blurred but I am touch typing and i hope it is not all garbled but I don't care I have to let you know I am praying for you and the Elf. Things will get better soon, dear gabs, and I will link hearts and minds in prayer for you. love you lots {{{{{{{{{{{{{{gabs/Gissi}}}}}}}}}}}}}
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Oh no Granny Siggi you should not be on here you should be lying down I have cried so much over the last few weeks I am surprised that I have tears left there is so much more going on at the moment please rest I have till next week to try and sort something so I am hoping that I will Little Elf is fine lol and he loves his Coat now Love you and a big ((((((((Hug))))))))) from us both Now go and rest
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@misheleen73 (6037)
• United States
7 Jan 08
You will most certainly be missed. You know I am here if you need something, all you have to do is ask !! I am with you on kids coming first, as mine always do as well. I know how hard it can be, let me know if there is anything I can do !! (((HUGS)))
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Hi there Sweetie Yes they do even when they are Adults and I will starve for my Kids which I have done in the past lol I have till next week to find the Money but I wanted to pre warn People because when they cut me of it will be without warning Thank you for offering your Help Sweetie but there is nothing anyone can really do for me I will be short for the next couple of months now Love and Hugs to you Lol are you at work or at home
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• United States
7 Jan 08
home, it's my day off and with the new house, I am cleaning, organizing, and doing laundry.. just took a little "break" LOL
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Lol I do not blame you everyone needs a break lol
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@wolfie34 (26793)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Oh sweetheart, sorry to hear this, but thanks for letting us know, you know how this silly wolfie worries! I don't see mummymo here on Yuwie anymore either, so I'll be doubly sad, I will also miss Gissi, so I'll have to save up my hugs and tales from the wolfie for when you return which I hope will be sooooooooon! This time of year is generally 'blue' and 'depressing' and a lot of us suffer from SAD, and not seeing you here will be another blow to the blues. I do understand where you are coming from and naturally children always come first and I'd be selfish to say I want you here all the time! You always make me smile, cheer me up and support me xxxx and double xxxxxx to Gissi!
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Wolfie I am still trying to get it sorted so there is nothing defiant yet I have till next week to try and sort it I am hoping it will not come to that Love and Hugs to you Sweetie xxxx
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@wolfie34 (26793)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Please drop me a line here or the 'other site sweetie and keep in touch ;0)
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Mooch thank you Sweetie It says free but it would be charged on my Phone bill I love you Sweetie and thank you I have till next week to try and sort it Wolfie I am sure that I had your Email Addy but I can't find it as I was going to send you my Mob Number Love and Hugs Sweetie xxxx
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• United States
7 Jan 08
You will be in my thoughts dear gabs. I am sure most of us understand that family generally tends to come first, and material things come second. Though you'll be missed, you do what you have to do, and get back to us when you can. You and your family will be in my prayers and thoughts. Sending best wishes and love your way. See you when you get back. Hopefully that will be soon. *hugs*
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Hi there Jewel Well I still have till next week to try and sort something so I am hoping that I can if not they will just cut me of so I wanted to warn People in advance as I would not be able to let them know Thank you Sweetie for the good wishes Happy New Year to you and a lot of Love and Hugs to you
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• United States
8 Jan 08
Well glad to have you here while we still can. :) I do hope you figure out something, but it's understandable if something can not be worked out. Been there a time or two myself, and know that the important things such as family come first. I wish you luck, and you will continue to be in my prayers. :)
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
7 Jan 08
Awww--I'm so sorry to hear you can't have you're Internet for awhile...I would go completely dingy without mine. Well I'm sure Gissi will keep you busy and might like the extra attention you can give him. Hope you can come back to us REAL soon gabs...gonna miss hearing from you. Maybe Terry can keep us posted about you ((((hugs))))
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 08
Like I said I am not sure yet as I have till next week but in case it does get Cut I just wanted People to know why I am not round so they do not worry I am still hoping that I can sort something Hugs
@royal52gens (5380)
• United States
7 Jan 08
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! I will be so lonely without you and Gissi. This will be like missing the best part of the daily newspaper every day. I do hope you get everything squared away so you can get back here right away.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Hey lol you will survive it might not happen yet I don't know I have till next week before they cut me of to sort something but I wanted to warn everyone because they will not tell me they will just cut me of
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@luvstochat (6914)
• United States
7 Jan 08
Well that goes to show what kind of parent you are! The best parent a child can have! Your kids come first. It is wonderful that you helped your children out over the last few monts but I am sorry that your bills had to be cut short to help them. What comes around goes around so something nice should happen to you.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Well thank you luvstochat I have always been that way with my Children and I always will be Thank you for your kind words
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• United States
7 Jan 08
Hope all goes well for you and your children and we will see you back here soon. xxOOxx
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
Well I am hoping it will not happen I have till next week xxxxx
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@Darkwing (21588)
10 Jan 08
Does this mean that they're sorted as far as the house goes, Gabs? I sure hope so. We understand that your kids will always come first... don't all of our kids? But, I think you need the computer sometimes, for company. I'll have to catch you somewhere, for a chat, soon. Till then, take care... love you. xx
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 08
The House is going tomorrow but the Kids now have somewhere Mel and a Work Colleague of hers The other 2 have got another house to that they are moving into tomorrow love and hugs xx
@Darkwing (21588)
11 Jan 08
Well, I think things have possibly worked out for the best, Sweetheart. I know how bad a time Mel was having and I think it was all upsetting Mike as well. Perhaps now, they'll get themselves sorted out, and find true happiness. You now have to concentrate on yourself Gabs, and get your health more steady. I know you've had a lot of worry, but I have a feeling everything is going to turn out ok. I hope I'm right. Love you... take care. xx
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 08
Yes I think so to and I really hope that we are both right My Kids deserve better they really do Love you I am a bit better still very tired and still some Pain but not as bad and getting better xxxx
@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
9 Jan 08
awwwwwwww lil sis i am so sorry that you have to go through such rough times again. but i totally understand, the kids come first. i really hope all goes well and you have some luck. you deserve it. i wish i could help right now, but you know how it is here. so i send you my angel to watch over you and cross my fingers for the best. if it happens, i promise i take care of your friends especially wolfie and send him some hugs for you. maybe that helps him a bit.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 08
Sis thank you I know you know what I am going through and I know what is going on with you but we always manage Wolfie needs looking after he is so sweet Love and a big Hug to you always my dear Sis
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
9 Jan 08
i promise i look after wolfie, i agree he is a sweet and wonderful friend
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 08
Thank you Sweetie I might just have enough Money left to pay it I will see they have given me till the end of next week
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Oh I'm sorry to hear this but have been there myself a few times - I did have the advantage of at that time I lived just a few blocks from the local Christian college and they had open computers in the library so I could go there when I just couldn't stand being out of touch. I wish I had funds to help you out but afraid I'm going through the same thing - money is very short supply.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 08
Faith I don't expect anyone to help me Sweetie as I know most of my Friends are in the same boat as me so do not worry But thank you for the sweet thought Love and Hugs to you I hope you are doing ok
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Oh dear I know you don't expect others to help - maybe I'm just dreaming a little here - thinking how nice it would be to be able to help others a bit here and there. :) hugs to you also.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 08
Oh Faith I know Sweetie and I really appreciate that as I am the same when a Friend is in trouble I want to help that Friend to with Money and it would be so nice if we could Love and Hugs to you
@polachicago (19073)
• United States
8 Jan 08
May I ask how much do you pay for your Internet connection? We have free internet in almost any public library... Is it possible for you to make enough on line to cover the cost? Sorry to ask too many questions, but there are always easy solutions. If 116,984 people from Mylot think together, we can find solution for everyone....
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 08
Hi Pola It is not normally to much but I have got behind on the Payments because I needed to help my Kids The actual Bill this time is £62 which equals about $145 Do not worry I will sort something and if not then it will have to wait till I am straight again Hugs
@polachicago (19073)
• United States
8 Jan 08
can you make payment installments? This way makes it easier...
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 08
No they will not let me as they will still cut me of until I have paid it all
@Nan110 (469)
• United States
13 Jan 08
Your a good mom to help your kids out. Your in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I had a mom like you. I don't talk to my mom that much cause we're having problems with her.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 08
Nan I am really sorry that you have that situation with your Mum Many Mum's do not realize how precious our Kids are whether they are we want them to be or not I love my Kids very much they are my world and they will always come first no matter what I really hope you will be able to sort it with your Mum Hugs to you Sweetie
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Jan 08
hello,i dont expecting you disappear for somedays,but absolutely i will miss you,so come here as soon as possible,so many friends will looking forwarding your coming...wish you have a good day without internet
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
13 Jan 08
Thank you Sylvia that is so sweet of you
• United States
10 Jan 08
Oh i'm ss is there anything I can do to help do ya have paypal if ya do email me your paypal addy and i will send ya what I can
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 08
Sweetie you need your Money I will write you an Email Love you and big Hugs
@bonbon664 (3470)
• Canada
10 Jan 08
I'm sorry to hear that, but, in the big scheme of things, the internet isn't all that important. Your kids come first, we understand that. I'll miss you though, and hope if you do leave, it's only for a short time.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 08
Well I am hoping that I can still get the money together I just have to wait But thank you Sweetie
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
10 Jan 08
Well I sure hope everything goes well and please know that my prayers are with you, God will be sure to help with the burden these last couple of months have brought you and praying that he will bring a change in your life to allow you even a small thing as the internet. I pray.
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@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 08
Thank you Kayte and I am hoping that I will be able to pay it I have worked my money out and at the moment I think I have enough but not sure yet