Why always I am at the receiving end of all bad things?

@subha12 (18463)
India
January 8, 2008 1:47am CST
It seems few of you may get irritated about me as I am again starting a discussion about my problem. But I find its the most appropriate place to share my problems. Today got a mail that for few weeks as I have booked my time in some code, and as it was the fault of the onsite peiople taht they could not provide sufficient work which can give some delivarables, the client may remove me from this area. What is this? is this a joke? When i wanted to be relaesed they did not? Now there is not those new projects left to be assigned. What will I do now? They have cancelled my trip and now they want to remove me from that project after i have dob=ne substancial work there? I don't understand why all the bad things happen to me?
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9 responses
@bellaofchaos (11553)
• United States
9 Jan 08
Subha I'm sorry that you are having some difficulties at work where they may remove you from a project that you have put so much time and care into. Let me ask this one question are they releasing you from all your duties with them? If not, then hang in there I'm sure things will turn around. If they are releasing you of all duties look at this as an oppurtunity to find better work with a better company that will appreciate you time. In life you can let it control you or you can try and control the situation to the best of your ability. I know that your a great person from the reponses I get from you. Take a deep breath my friend becuase maybe this is just opening the doors for better possibilities in your life. take care .
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@MsTickle (24752)
• Australia
12 Jan 08
How extremely distressing for you subha my friend. You have repeatedly told us that your standard of work and your attitude is excellent and of the highest standard so I really don't understand this. Perhaps they are grooming you for a higher position? Meantime, have you approached your superior to discuss why your trip was cancelled? Has there been an explanation given why the others went and not you? Perhaps it is time to call a meeting and discuss why your trip was cancelled and why there are no projects for you now. We here at myLot have no answers for you. You must seek the answers from your place of work. Good luck.
@subha12 (18463)
• India
13 Jan 08
Hi friend, thanks for your reply. I have already spoke to my superior. They could not tell me any acceptable reason why the trip was cancelled. At last they told it was communication gap rather no communication from my manager's side. Now I think time has come i stop all talking and search for another job and resign from the job here.
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@williamjisir (22909)
• China
8 Jan 08
Hello dear subhal. I am sorry that you are not feeling so good about what you have experienced now. But I still hold the idea that you will be sure to be very lucky some day soon as we have the saying that spring will come soon since winter is gone. I hope that your life and work will be an excellent one without these bothering things happening to you. Good luck, my dear friend.
@subha12 (18463)
• India
13 Jan 08
Lets see what happens. though i have stopped anticipating abt any good happening to me.thanks for reply and good wishes.
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@kasyap (51)
• India
9 Jan 08
hi my friend subakutti.. not only you but me as well is facing some difficulties for a long expecially for the last two years.but the thing is that you should niether get disappointed nor give up. listen carefully what i am going to say. there are only two phases in all of our life . they are good times and bad times. no one in this world is not able to get only one out of this throughout his life. every one should go through both of these phases . this is an universal truth . god wants to see how we control our emotions when we are on the top and we miss our shot. when bad times come do not give up .you should see that good times are coming on your way sooner . so wait for that phase . if you are able to accept this concept , there wont be any time for us to get disappointed. go on and go on... god is with you . always do your duty without expecting the results.
• China
9 Jan 08
my dear friend,there are a lot of hapless things in our live,but please do by optimism,then you will feel spry in your life.i think that whatever personal rule of life you may choose it should not,except in rare and heroic cases,be incompatible with happiness.so you should belive you are lucky and have a good time everyday.
@Ohara_1983 (4122)
• Kuwait
8 Jan 08
Hello my dear friend, dont be sad one day your the person will head on up, all the thing that you lost this moment will be grow up with your name on it, in that day you will realize that days are not all the same sometimes down sometimes up. just believe to your self that you can do it with you head is up.
@vivek2006 (1419)
• India
8 Jan 08
I couldn't exactly get what kind of work ur taking about, the trip, the mail..online work but i cud see that ur a bit worried. I can only say u don't have to be worried about the people here getting bored of your problems, u've got a lot of frndz in ur frndz list and sure frndz are there to help u out in needy times. Also just have a look at some of the interest like Life etc..etc. and you will see a lot of people looking to resolve their problems so we can say MyLot is a good place to see others' views and sole ur problems.....So go ahead and ask questions without any such worrying type of feeling.
@dpk262006 (52256)
• Delhi, India
8 Jan 08
Be patient! Don't lose heart or feel dishearten. I agree....it becomes difficult to tolerate this kind of things...one after another.......Perhaps something good is waiting to happen for you. Please remember....it may be God's will...and God does 'best' with everyone. My best wishes are with you.
@dianne17k (601)
• Philippines
8 Jan 08
Sh*t happens... Just hang on in there! It happens to the best of us and things will get better soon.